probably should have replied to you in the personal message that you sent me but i am new to this site so i apologize for that

i don't like wasting people's time because i know how it feels so i figured sending that amount was above average.

again i totally appreciate your time on my behalf

ok i sent you 0.0102 did you get it yet ?

LOL ok both my transactions just got confirmed at the same time just a few minutes ago

who did it so i can send a tip and don't lie either

i would like to be able to tip someone who can not only help me with these 2 transactions but moving forward with all of my bitcoin related issues.

i can afford to have these transactions stay unconfirmed till about 7 days from now so hopefully nothing gets stuck past that.

i'd like to find a wallet that has an app for the apple iphone as well as pc/web based.

how much is a good amount to give someone to help me about an hour a month or less?

I know a lot of you here are of very very high intelligence with no patience for the average guy like but i'd like to find the patient guy who can explain to me in basic terms if possible. 

I have a $3000 instant buy limit with coinbase but i'm not going to do anything till i find a good wallet suitable for my needs since i don't think i can trust the blockchain wallet anymore.

Anyone you know of that would be good to get in contact with for my concerns?  thanks

https://blockchain.info/tx/05c3efd34206de4c17b87d1c0b4e579b34e6b3bb0afbf7d72a16401cc53fcc91

sent this from my blockchain wallet almost 32 hours ago and i realized the fee was too low

https://blockchain.info/tx/a4dc875026bbd83c7ccce1393a576c2fb487a69fa7f476ff06e77cfbaa251ae1

sent this from my blockchain wallet 18 hours ago as an experiment

Through both of these transactions i realized that certain wallets are not good to go from here on out including the blockchain wallet that i have been using.

Can you please explain to me what might be going on and possibly get my transactions confirmed?  The highest i have ever waited was 37 hours for a confirmation. 

I hope that i can find someone to help me out, thank you.