Okay, I opened port 8332 (hopefully correctly) and the console readout has changed a little
2013-04-12 15:39:11: Listener for "bigbija" started
2013-04-12 15:39:11: Listener for "bigbija": WARNING: ADL missing (no AMD platform?), temperature control is disabled
2013-04-12 15:39:11: Listener for "bigbija": 12/04/2013 15:39:11, started OpenCL miner on platform 0, device 0 (Intel(R) Core(TM) i5 CPU M 460 @ 2.53GHz)
2013-04-12 15:39:12: Listener for "bigbija": pit.deepbit.net:8332 12/04/2013 15:39:12, checking for stratum...
2013-04-12 15:39:13: Listener for "bigbija": pit.deepbit.net:8332 12/04/2013 15:39:13, using JSON-RPC (no stratum header)
It is now stuck connecting. Please help, I have looked all over and everywhere says its really easy but it isn't. Obviously something extra needs to be done here. Thanks