Now I have tested it. First I changed 0.1 bitcoins in Dash, than 0.5 Dash in XRM and last 1 Dash in XRM. Everything worked quickly, cleanly and without problems. In all transactions the coins were in minutes on my wallets and the fees are allways only 5%. Very fair! That's exactly what I was looking for I think I´m staying.
Edith: 0,5% and not 5%! Sry.