Thank you everyone for your posts. I really appreciate it. This is really strange though-- so I'm putting in my transaction key in hex or not depending on the requirements for all those websites and then continue to the next and then the last two websites I tried says it's confirmed already!!??? The money looks like it's in the recipient address and shows the final balance but still stays unconfirmed transaction below? Is my money really in there after all this time?
https://blockchain.info/address/34SGgLbXxXVvWpyeZTBY6vSiys7DJ7q3rB