Be careful, do not share either of your privatekey or seed phrase to anyone or you will lose all your funds. I am not sure if you can take back what you have sent and as you mentioned you have sent BCH to a BTC address. Better try to contact the wallet's support and see of there is anything that they can do. Again do not share your private key or seed pharase even if you are talking to an admin or support.
Thank you very much for your clear explanations. what escapes me now is to contact wallet support.how to contact him?