I was able to locate the address on Ian Coleman by using my YPUB in the BIP32 Root Key and then going to BIP 141 and changing the Script Semantics to P2WPKH and the address is there
In addition to the depth field as per the decoded key in pooya's post... When you put the YPUB in as the BIP32 Root Key, what is the "BIP32 derivation path" showing under the "BIP141" when you can see your address? So I cheated, I had a more technical friend help me out and ultimately as discussed he made me find it using the Bip 32 Root key derived from my YPUB and going to Bip 141 and then if we changed the script semantics to P2WPKH the address was there. He then had me upload my mnemonic offline and get the private key for that specific address and we imported it into Electrum and got it out.
According to the exchange "We convert the extended public key according to the user selection (3... or bc1...), because the x/y/z stuff is not set in stone but a loose convention. For example, some wallets produce "x"pubs even though they should by "z"pubs - so we can't rely on the "x" or "y" or "z" input. Therefore the user's selection is very important. Since you selected bc1 here, it impacted our derivation path."
They said they will make a change to their service and make users type and confirm the address prior to approving the Y/XPUB.