Looks like the mempool fees shot down, and the transaction actually got confirmed on its own.
I want to thank everyone here for helping me !!

Hey guys - Sorry, I'm catching up with the replies.

So, I just want to confirm - these 'LND' commands are for main chain?
Because my main-chain transaction is stuck. I don't have any payment channels on Lightning.

Second - Where do I type these commands in?
Is there an App in Umbrel?

Also, RBF was not enabled for this transaction. So RBF won't work.

Sorry for all these questions and confusion. I'm just trying to get my sats back OR pushed through at this point.

Yes, you're correct.
You're on-chain and Lightning wallets are both in the lightning node app (which I find weird), but that's how it works. I'm sure there was some reason for doing doing so that's beyond me.

There is however "bitcoin core" on umbrel - but you just see stats there, and there's no wallet information there. It's simply your node.

I still have no idea where to run commands or abandon transactions.
No one from Umbrel is even reaching back to me.

Thanks for the info.
I'll review this and see if I can get my transaction abandoned.

The UI doesn't allow me to pick specific UTXO's - this is the problem i'm facing.
I can lease UTXO's - are you familiar with this?
I've posted a pic of the Umbrel UI in my post above.

What happens if I send everything in my wallet? (All UTXO's?) confirmed and unconfirmed ?
Basically send all my current bitcoin back to me in 1 transaction.
Will this help?

Ok, Got it. Thanks.

So in my situation - what's the best move I should do?
I'm not sure what to do anymore but wait.

Did you mean they SHOULD be dropped or Shouldn't? I'm assuming a 1.02 sat/vbyte SHOULD be dropped as no miner would want to add that to the block as there's no incentive to do so.

General Question:
What's the workflow here? Let's say there's 'n' nodes on the network.
My node broadcasts a 1 sat/vbyte transaction to the entire network.
Assuming this single tranaction doesn't get into the block < 24 hrs, it gets labeled as unconfimed.
But it's still in the mempool - My personal mempool that's working off my personal node.
A collection of these mempools makes a pool of global mempools.

Is this accurate so far?

So, what happens if all other mempools running on all other 'n-1' nodes stop broadcasting my transaction, but my specifc node keeps re-broadcasting/relaying it to all othe nodes? My node just wants to keep pushing it through at a low fee with no success.
Will this unconfirmed trasaction just stay unconfirmed indefinitly until I tell my node to stop broadcasting it?
If that's the case, how do I tell my node to do so? I'm using Umbrel - I don't see any options to stop broadcasting transactions.
 
Yes, this transactin is mine. I've attached in my previous post what I see in my Umbrel UI.

Yes, The Total Transaction was sent to 1 address. Since the way UTXO's work, i've gotten the diference (total bitcoin on wallet - what i'm sending) sent back to me as a change transaction - This is the 550,372 sats that were sent back to me.

I don't use bitcoin core. I'm using umbrel and have a self hosted node.
However, The concept of coin control should be analogous, so i'm looking for a way to do it within my UI -


I'm only seeing "view info", "label" and "lease" as my options for each UTXO. And the one you see that's not confirmed for 550,372 sats is my change that came back to me. I don't know how to specifically spend this one. This is where i'm stuck I think.

Thanks for the reply !

Is there something I have to additionally do at my end to spend the coins again?
If you use mempool.space explorer it will show as unconfirmed.
I see an unconfirmed UTXO still.

Just to confirm - I have to send the exact UTXO that was sent back to me from the original parent transaction, correct?
This is the UTXO (that's unconfirmed) that I have to again send back to myself to push the original parent transaction through?
Is this correct? If so, I have done this.

Thanks for your help.

Hi All,

Bitcoin Client Software and Version Number: Bitcoin Core 24.0.1; running on Umbrel node over Tor on a Raspberry Pi 4

Operating System: Windows 11 Home 64-bit

System Hardware Specs: 11th gen Intel(R) Core(TM) i7 @ 2.80 GHz (8 CPUs), 16GB memory, 500 GB hard drive, GeForce GTX 1650 Ti Max-Q Design Graphics Card.

Description of Problem:
My bitcoin transaction on mainchain has been unconfirmed for over two weeks.
Unfortunately, the highest miner fee that was suggested by Umbrel was 1.02 sat/vbyte (without going to advanced setting and setting it manually). This is the reason no miner is picking it up.
Shortly after, the on-chain transaction volume spiked and the mining fee went all the way to 15 sats/vbyte, leaving my 1.02 sat/vbyte unconfirmed after 24 hours.
The Transaction is still currently unconfirmed.

This transaction is not RBF compatible.
I’ve tried using CPFP to push my original transaction through using Ride the Lightning app on the Umbrel Node UI, with no success. I am not able to see an option on how to isolate the unconfirmed UTXO and send it back to myself.
I do see options to "Lease" certain UTXO's for 10 minutes. So I tried leasing all the non-relevant UTXO's and tried sending my unconfirmed UTXO (‎0.00550372 BTC - See below) back to me with a high mining Fee (30 Sat/Vbyte) with no success. The parent transaction still stays unconfirmed, as well as my Unconfirmed UTXO that was sent back to my address.

I'm reading 21 days is the magic number for broadcasting to stop and the mempool to wipe any unconfirmed transactions. Is this a solid fact? I'm approaching this date. I'm also reading if the mempool wipes unconfirmed transactions, my node can still re-broadcast it automatically and it will be stuck in limbo again - which I don't want.
Any help would be greatly appreciated. All relevant info is below.

Any Related Addresses: (mempool URL for my original transaction:)
https://mempool.space/tx/03996da080448b10b4a69706214c19062c317e84d9337b7c7637437e883fc68f
Note that 0.00550372 BTC got sent back to me - This is the unconfirmed UTXO I was trying to send back to myself in the above explanation.

Any Related Transaction IDs:
03996da080448b10b4a69706214c19062c317e84d9337b7c7637437e883fc68f

Screenshot of the problem: See mempool URL for my transaction

Log Files from the Bitcoin Client: Can provide upon specific request

Would greatly appreciate any support from the bitcoin community - Although I've learned a lot of technical aspects of bitcoin on this journey, it has been stressful.