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小伙和老板同姓被认为是靠关系进来的 被同事排挤
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小伙和老板同姓被认为是靠关系进来的 被同事排挤
April 23, 2015, 10:35:46 AM
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就因为我跟老板同姓
“我现在真的不知道该怎么解释,感觉这份工作做不下去了。”24岁的黄田(化名)到新公司工作三个月了,发现因为与同事的误会,日常工作受到了严重影响。
同事故意不转达老板要求
昨天中午12点过,在位于大溪沟的一家房地产广告公司里,同事们都三三两两约着去附近的小餐馆吃午饭,黄田仍旧在在办公室里制图。“我晚点去吃,怕遇到同事尴尬。”
自从3个月前来这家公司做视觉设计后,黄田大部分时间都是独自吃饭,同事们很少叫他一起,上班的空闲也很少跟他摆龙门阵。“最开始觉得大家不熟。”黄田说。
原本以为慢慢就会融入新的环境,但一个月前的一件事让黄田觉得,自己遭到了排挤。
“我让你上午就交给我的方案,你怎么还没动静?”上个月初的一天下午,老板把黄田叫进办公室,上来就是一通质问。
“你们这些90后,做事就是拖拖拖,没得个时间观念。”被老板骂得发愣的黄田怎么也想不起来自己曾经接到过老板要求他上午交方案的通知。
黄田被吓到了,他没有出声辩解,而是立马道歉,并将自己已写好的方案交给了老板。
没想到,接下来的一个月,这样的事情发生了三四次。想到自己是新人,黄田一直不敢开口跟老板当面说清楚。
大家认为他是老板亲戚
经过努力,黄田的方案终于得到了甲方的认可。在4月7号的早会上,老板对黄田提出了表扬,同时也对在场的所有人摊了牌,“我晓得你们,不习惯新人工作两个月就独立做好了这么大的案子,但是人家能干,不要认为资格老,在公司里就想七想八的。”黄田知道,这是老板在为自己说话。
从那天以后,类似的事情再没有出过,但黄田明显感觉到,大家对自己更疏远了,“以前偶尔还能聊两句,现在基本就只剩打招呼了。”整个公司的员工加起来才20多人,和黄田交好的,也就只有那两三个一起进来的新人。
“你跟老板一个姓,大家都以为你跟老板是亲戚。”上周四下班后,同是公司新人的小赵忍不住提醒黄田。听到这句话,黄田才终于知道了大家排挤自己的原因。
黄田没有想到,因为和老板一个姓,就招来这样的误会,“我不知道该怎么处理,这是我大学毕业后的第二份工作,我很珍惜。”
小赵给他出主意,让他请同事们吃饭,把事情说清楚,但黄田不同意,“没有人主动来问过我,我怎么开这个口解释,自说自唱么?”
实际上,黄田的老板黄先生已经知道了大部分员工与黄田不合。他希望黄田能自己处理好这个事情,“他是新人,要学会自己打入这个团体,而不是事事都找我。与同事的关系都处理不好,还怎么处理好与客户的关系?”
白领支招
有人说该解释有人说不该
针对黄田的处境,晨报记者随机调查了两名办公室白领,他们的意见恰恰相反。
28岁的公司会计张巧巧认为,这种事不能解释,否则只能越描越黑,“如果别人误会你走后门,你又想继续留在公司,就要比别人更努力。最好多帮人跑跑腿,让别人发现自己没有恶意。”
在解放碑一家科技公司做人力资源工作的何淼则认为必须解释清楚,但又不能让老板来解释,“这种事最差的办法就是找老板,这样只会让你更加被孤立。可以主动和大家沟通,或者让知道真相且关系较好的同事帮忙解释。”
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