@amaclin, I tried the blockchain.info send transaction, and it results in: "The Maximum number of inputs in a single transaction is 200"
Thank you for all the suggestions. And I will look into all of them after I try linux that has a command line length long enough to accommodate the long raw transaction.
@theymos, only one wallet knows about the transaction, as far as can be told. No idea how to remove it from the wallet.
If its your wallet use pywallet. If it belongs to someone else just ignore it. One node will not stop a pushtx.