i"m getting paranoid i think. i'm getting constant mails of people trying to access my gmail accounts, game accounts etc. so that must mean i have leaked my username/password somewhere in the past and i'm affraid i might have used the same combinations for my btcjam/gox/blockchain accounts etc.. even if i change my passwords the log in attempts keep coming ...i don't think anyone has had access to any accounts of mine besides an old wow account were i fel into an e-mail scam like 6 years ago.. should i be worried?
Yes, you should be worried as you're in their radar.
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