He is new member. Will only use escrow with him.
Well, hes not exactly a new member. You have to understand that people have a "right for privacy" on here, so they are allowed to create alot of accounts (apparently its to support the minorities such as schizophrenics) . So when you see a "newbie", you can go ahead and consider him to be a "hero" or regular member at least.
Tell him escrow takes too long, so lets do like this: Contact him and make him the offer of his life (go even down to 50 for the 500), then when he or you mentions "escrow", say you have to quickly walk the dog and he needs to act fast - make him send first - so you wont be "fooled" again.
If you ever need a loan, I might also have the right contact person for you.