best and easiest way to send bitcoin?

[ThatDudeTheres]

if I make a payment or receive a payment, it is all confirmed and secure.

The saftey with localbitcoins comes from the 100% seller rating with 1000's of transactions. Find someone with a payment method that works for you, and a great rating, and you'll be good.  

[delliaerd]

Add the fees to make your transactions faster. In my opinion it will solve your problem although only a little. Cause usually it also diminish less time.