XMR is listed on Kraken but I am not aware if NY residents are allwed or not. If you haven't tried it may be good to check it.
Nope, Kraken doesn't have Bitlicense and won't allow me to register.
I am glad to see I can use Bittrex as a backup if I need. I've always used Btc-e and Yobit, however recently I found Cryptopia; and since their based in New Zealand they can ignore the bit license requirement. Cryptopia is small, however they seem to deal most every crypto, so I've been using them as a backup to buy anything I can't on Yobit and BTC-E.