You need to build up some rep/trust first. I doubt anybody is going to want to take the risk or escrowing with you yet.
^^^ This guy, no redeeming qualities ^^^
Also since I suck at everything
Your signature also doesn’t exactly give people much confidence haha
Oh yeah that's just a joke
So how do I build up my trust first, also I gave alternatives if they don't have much trust, any advice?
Stick around, help people out, sell or buy some items, do some trades or lend some coin, do some giveaways; there's lots of things you can do. It's not easy to gain trust on an anonymous marketplace with anonymous currencies and this is unfortunately capitalised on by scammers, so people really need to know that they can trust you.