Main question is what's difference between 3rd and 4th options?
The 3rd option proxies all of your traffic. The 4th option only proxies TOR connections. So setting the 4th option allows you to connect to node's that are listening over TOR while connections to IPv4 and IPv6 nodes happen over your normal connection. The 3rd option will proxy ALL connections.
Can i just use 3rd option with 127.0.0.1 port 9050 (it's TOR port)?
Yes.
Also, i want to ask you about 1st and 2nd option. For what purpose they are?
The first option enables UPnP which will automatically tell your router (if it supports UPnP) to allow connections through to Bitcoin Core's P2P port. Typically routers will block such connections. Such routers will need port forwarding enabled for the P2P port. UPnP does that automatically.
The 2nd option disables the incoming connections entirely.
Do i need to disable incoming connections for maximum security?
No. The security risk is the same.