Hi yonillasky,
Your coins will be counted as stake only when new block will be found by your wallet, that's normal. Block generation can take some time, my 100 coins with 60 days age were able to find a block only after 7-8 hours of waiting, for example.
You can imagine this process as a lottery with 10 mins duration of cycle. You have 100 tickets and the entire network has NetStakeWeight tickets, only one ticket per 10 minutes wins.
I understand that with just 100 coindays I still have poor odds of hitting a PoS block, I just want to make sure it's actually participating at all.
100 coindays is more than enough to generate new block. That's my block, for example:
http://explorer.novaco.in/block/15807c8f3556308910622fb9aaf51b4605fac87d026d44b2958e4e9192e7d6d2Coinstake input had only 7 coindays weight.
By the way, if you wish to see the miner work at low-level, start your client with -debug -printcoinstake -printcreation parameters, but you have to prepare yourself for reading the very long debug.log file.