Before helping my friends, I'll help my family and relatives first. I will give in return to those people who have helped during my times when I'm feeling down. I'll spend it with my necessities first but I'm not going to forget that I have dreams to fulfill.
Of course, that should be the first thing to do, help your family before anyone. Did you know that most star athletes who become bankrupt used to help all of their friends when they have all the money before? But when the player leaves the game and the money stop coming in, he has no choice but to sell all his expensive cars and properties.
And where are all his friends then? They are all gone, and that is the sad truth.