The exact description of what you are looking for is a developer who connects all of this open-source Software (BitGo, Bisq, and BTCpay payment) so I think you need to search for him using the services section
[1] or start asking for help in developing your project
[2].
It is a mistake to rely on one software or link to several open-source software, especially if you want to create a platform with high trading volumes so it is better to start from scratch.
As for small projects, the best thing that I can think of is ---->
https://www.rubykube.io/.
Read here --->
Around Peatio, as the core wallet and order book management system, we have built account management and KYC using open-source Barong OAuth2 system, as well as Business Logic and other components.
The Kite installation & administration tool allows you to deploy entire platform from scratch in 1 hour and makes management and maintenance a breeze.
And we have covered back-end with beautiful and fully customizable front-end using React
More and sources --->
https://github.com/openware/peatio
[1]
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?board=52.0[2]
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?board=12.0