I did the "Rebuild and Rescan Databases" . It took most of the day. Now I am "offline". <sigh>
I guess I'll quit and restart and see if there's any improvement.
edit: When I quit Armory, the ArmoryDB process doesn't exit. I have to kill it from Task Manager.
Definitely stick with running bitcoin-qt yourself, not having Armory run bitcoind. You will want to config bitcoin-qt to run RPC in this case too.
In my experience, ArmoryDB not exiting gracefully usually means either the scanning isn't finished or ArmoryDB is choking on some part of the blockchain.
In those rare cases where Armory rescans have failed like that I've had to reindex the blockchain in bitcoin-qt, which isn't exactly fast.
Before you do anything like that, please post your logs files (via pastebin or similar)
armorylog.txt and dbLog.txt are probably the most useful. They will contain paths that have your username in them - feel free to find/replace the username.