Question for those who loose too frequently in gambling

[Jody.Drummer]

Yes that's right and they always think and assume that as you said "my lucky time will come soon", that's what makes them barely able or do not know when to stop or just reduce. And on the other hand they have unusual expectations, their expectations are very high and they think that if they stop then it is the same as they will lose the opportunity to break even to replace all their losses with the winnings they will get, but the problem is that it is nothing more than just their hallucinations, are they told by the casino or just given an indication that they will get a big win? no friend, like I said it is nothing more than their hallucinations that are too exaggerated in assuming the chances of winning, in fact the casino will be happy when they see the gamblers suffer losses.

Yes, the more they think like that, it is clear that it is not the chances of winning that are getting closer but what is more certain is that the number of their losses will increase, that is more certain. Well that makes sense, as I said on the other hand what if the winnings they get are small and far from what they have sacrificed, won't you feel disappointed? obviously and after that what is there is even worse you will gamble because you are upset that the results are not appropriate.

They're battling their mentality, not just playing games. This "my lucky time will come" story is self-made, not casino-induced. Classic gambler's fallacy, right? The assumption that losing streaks end in wins. Each spin and card is unique and casinos profit from this premise. They dont need to promise big wins; gamblers convince themselves of that.

When they win small? Dissatisfaction encourages play. Chase losses -> fantasize of huge wins -> face tiny gains -> repeat. Its about the emotional rollercoaster, not simply money. Gamblers are stuck in a psychological maze with no way out.

Yes as I said before, such assumptions are made by themselves or the point comes out of their own minds as motivation so that they can remain enthusiastic in pursuing victory or pursuing break-even, they think that what they are doing is a struggle to achieve success haha lol. There is no success in gambling, you will not be able to resist such cycles from happening to you, because indeed the cycle of more losses than wins will continue to occur as long as you gamble. What's the problem? Well the mindset, I said before that they have hallucinations to make excuses or justify what they're doing and it's like a defense  that what they're doing isn't wrong, but I said that it's so ridiculous.

"Trapped or trapping yourself in a psychological maze" that makes a lot of sense, dissatisfaction, greed, curiosity, emotion those are the things that push them into a worse zone, instead of getting the right result they end up with a worse  one, do you believe that something that is based on emotion and greed will end well? No my friend, in any case especially in real life problems those things will usually make the situation even worse.

[junder]

That is true. Many people believe that life is like zebra, black-white, good-bad, win-lose. That triggers them to place another bet, with a wish to win back a previously lost bet. And this is what destroys people, as I have seen many times that after a loss with most possible lowest odd, comes same loosing odd, even though a probability that it will happen is very low. The reason why people continue gambling after a series of losses is simple, repeated here million times and known to everyone - disability to resist greed.

The only time people lose their total bankroll is because they increase their bets to the point that it can be recovered by the remaining bankroll. Gambling is really 50-50 game which means no matter how terrible lose streak you encounter, there’s always a counter part winning streak to balance the game probability wise or else the game is rigged.

People continue to bet after losing because you will never experience winning if you stop at loss. The only problem is the bankroll management which many player failed to do that result massive loss.

Most of the time that's the case. Gamblers keep on betting because they think that the next bet could be the lucky one that will give them the jackpot and it's a never-ending next. I can still remember telling myself that it would be the last 10 bets but I went to 100 bets I am still not stopping. I guess the "finding out" the unknown result plays a big factor in why we keep on doing it.
I have been frequently losing because of that even though I already win enough I keep on betting more because I want to see if my luck is still intact.
That's why discipline is the key if you want to be a real winner. You win enough, go look for another game because if it's the same game you will be playing, it will just take back what you gained and maybe even worst by taking everything in your wallet including the amount that you are trying to secure.

Hahaha sorry I laughed at what you said, because you can't set what you said, with the beginning being the last 10 bets but in the end it became the last 100 bets.

You are right, the key is in discipline. That will determine you in the future, easy to say but difficult to do and that's the reality. Many of them are also like you, by saying the last bet but still doing the same thing in the future, it indicates that there is no strong stance and is not consistent with what was said at the beginning, but that's okay it is a common thing because I have also done it hahaha. Everyone must have done it so it's true that people's attitudes change easily with the absence of strong discipline in each of us, I admit it. For the future I hope everyone can keep what they said at the beginning, by not doing the opposite of what they said at the beginning.
Discipline, self-control, emotions, and limiting that must be mastered in each of us to avoid big risks.

[slapper]

Yes that's right and they always think and assume that as you said "my lucky time will come soon", that's what makes them barely able or do not know when to stop or just reduce. And on the other hand they have unusual expectations, their expectations are very high and they think that if they stop then it is the same as they will lose the opportunity to break even to replace all their losses with the winnings they will get, but the problem is that it is nothing more than just their hallucinations, are they told by the casino or just given an indication that they will get a big win? no friend, like I said it is nothing more than their hallucinations that are too exaggerated in assuming the chances of winning, in fact the casino will be happy when they see the gamblers suffer losses.

Yes, the more they think like that, it is clear that it is not the chances of winning that are getting closer but what is more certain is that the number of their losses will increase, that is more certain. Well that makes sense, as I said on the other hand what if the winnings they get are small and far from what they have sacrificed, won't you feel disappointed? obviously and after that what is there is even worse you will gamble because you are upset that the results are not appropriate.

They're battling their mentality, not just playing games. This "my lucky time will come" story is self-made, not casino-induced. Classic gambler's fallacy, right? The assumption that losing streaks end in wins. Each spin and card is unique and casinos profit from this premise. They dont need to promise big wins; gamblers convince themselves of that.

When they win small? Dissatisfaction encourages play. Chase losses -> fantasize of huge wins -> face tiny gains -> repeat. Its about the emotional rollercoaster, not simply money. Gamblers are stuck in a psychological maze with no way out.

Yes as I said before, such assumptions are made by themselves or the point comes out of their own minds as motivation so that they can remain enthusiastic in pursuing victory or pursuing break-even, they think that what they are doing is a struggle to achieve success haha lol. There is no success in gambling, you will not be able to resist such cycles from happening to you, because indeed the cycle of more losses than wins will continue to occur as long as you gamble. What's the problem? Well the mindset, I said before that they have hallucinations to make excuses or justify what they're doing and it's like a defense  that what they're doing isn't wrong, but I said that it's so ridiculous.

"Trapped or trapping yourself in a psychological maze" that makes a lot of sense, dissatisfaction, greed, curiosity, emotion those are the things that push them into a worse zone, instead of getting the right result they end up with a worse  one, do you believe that something that is based on emotion and greed will end well? No my friend, in any case especially in real life problems those things will usually make the situation even worse.

Gambling reflects many life components. It has risks and probable loss, but so does every things else. Despite obstacles, people pursue occupations, relationships, and aspirations out of optimism, ambition, and desperation. Isn't gambling an example of these human experiences?

Your focus on emotion and greed's destructive influence in gambling creates a paradox. Differently channeled emotions promote invention, perseverance, and resilience in other areas. Can we immediately label these features as bad? Perhaps the problem is how to handle emotion or ambition. As in life, self-awareness and discipline may help in gambling. Understanding motivations and setting boundaries can make a cautionary tale a self-mastery lesson. Isn't there a lesson to be learned there, about the human condition itself?

[arimamib]

Gambling reflects many life components. It has risks and probable loss, but so does every things else. Despite obstacles, people pursue occupations, relationships, and aspirations out of optimism, ambition, and desperation. Isn't gambling an example of these human experiences?

Gambling can be a mirror of a character, because gambling has something to do with adrenaline or emotions and decisions making. Gambling provides hope and fear. Just as people pursue careers, relationships, and dreams despite the potential for failure, individuals engage in gambling with the hope of achieving their desired outcome.

It's a reminder that life is a journey which contains risks and uncertainties, and our decisions involve weighing potential gains against potential losses. It's a reminder that life is a gamble, and we must carefully navigate its uncertainties while striving for our aspirations.

[maydna]

Gambling reflects many life components. It has risks and probable loss, but so does every things else. Despite obstacles, people pursue occupations, relationships, and aspirations out of optimism, ambition, and desperation. Isn't gambling an example of these human experiences?

Gambling can be a mirror of a character, because gambling has something to do with adrenaline or emotions and decisions making. Gambling provides hope and fear. Just as people pursue careers, relationships, and dreams despite the potential for failure, individuals engage in gambling with the hope of achieving their desired outcome.

It's a reminder that life is a journey which contains risks and uncertainties, and our decisions involve weighing potential gains against potential losses. It's a reminder that life is a gamble, and we must carefully navigate its uncertainties while striving for our aspirations.

Perhaps that's true, but don't forget that in gambling, we use money, and when we lose, the money disappears from our wallet. Even though we try to win, we will still find it difficult to recover the losses while the victory is still far from what we expected. If someone tries to pursue a career, relationships, and dreams, he will not lose money like in gambling, but he will lose time for other things. This time may mean we miss out on being with our family because we are chasing something or our dreams. Perhaps this will really disappear when we succeed in achieving something or that dream, but is it worth it? Only we know.

If we have been gambling too often, we will definitely have experienced wins or losses, but of course, our losses will probably be more than the wins we get. We have to be able to control ourselves so that we don't experience too many losses so that we don't experience other problems such as gambling addiction. Those who have lost a lot of money from gambling should learn to reduce their gambling activities.

[BitcoinPanther]

Gambling reflects many life components. It has risks and probable loss, but so does every things else. Despite obstacles, people pursue occupations, relationships, and aspirations out of optimism, ambition, and desperation. Isn't gambling an example of these human experiences?

Gambling can be a mirror of a character, because gambling has something to do with adrenaline or emotions and decisions making. Gambling provides hope and fear. Just as people pursue careers, relationships, and dreams despite the potential for failure, individuals engage in gambling with the hope of achieving their desired outcome.

How a player perform in their gambling activities is a mirror of their character.  Since his gambling decision shows his strength and weaknesses.  It is more on his decision making rather than the adrenalin and emotion, after all, our action is due to our decisions that maybe affected by emotion and adrenaline rush if we have weak control over it.

It's a reminder that life is a journey which contains risks and uncertainties, and our decisions involve weighing potential gains against potential losses. It's a reminder that life is a gamble, and we must carefully navigate its uncertainties while striving for our aspirations.

Life can't be compared to gambling, because life road is decided by our decision, the success and failure in life is highly influenced by us while winning and losing in gambling is not affected by our decision but rather by the mechanism called RNG.

[inthelongrun]

There are only 2 types of people who continue to bet even if they are losing most of the time. It's either they're addicted so they continue betting without thinking. The other one is a responsible gambler. There are also times when I keep on losing but I still continue betting. Most of the time I just stop betting for days or weeks and then when I'm back again. It's because I am betting within my limits so I am not really worried if I lose. And since I enjoy betting, I have no plans of stopping unless it is necessary for me to stop. 

[LUCKMCFLY]

I do usually lost in gambling while my friends continually hit big I guess they are among the reason I still continue gambling but my current resolve is small stakes big odds. I don't really care how many times I lose but the day I finally hit it I'm gonna get it big. I don't see this unhealthy to me since I'm not addicted to gambling

You have two addictions here already. You are chasing your loses indirectly because since your friends are winning and you are not, that should have been enough reason for you to conclude gambling is not working for you or probably you know but you are waiting for when you will hit it big which is another part of addiction. Many gamblers are in these two traps, they want to recover their loses by hitting it big and stop but the more you wait to accomplish this desire the more you are losing to the house edge but I hope it will work for you, all the best on that.

Sometimes we can compare ourselves with others, but that kind of thing should not be done because everyone is a different person, we just have a friend because whether they win or not win is something we should not take into consideration to do, this is something we It varies a lot, sometimes they can play the right game at the right time and win, at some point the person who doesn't win will never have a good win, what has to be done is improve certain behaviors they have in the game, I don't know if the person It is the one who sets a budget willing to lose, or do I know if the person when playing does it under pressure with a lot of stress, because if so, it is very difficult to win, there is no better way than playing first to have fun and second to win money, because motivation and good faith or positivism must be had, it is something that we should not lose, but do it on the ground, not with castles in the air, we, as people who are usual, must know that the casino is another thing.

Yes, they must improve their behavior when playing by improving certain behaviors that can prevent them from losses that will occur. Such as self-control that always must be possessed so that they do not overplay, Because most of them are not willing to lose money due to gambling and then cannot accept the defeat that occurs so they have a sense of wanting to reverse the losses that have occurred which may cost them more money they have even though they set a budget limit for gambling.
The goal that a gambler should have is to gamble for thrills that can be made into fun or entertainment, and as you said that should be maintained not eliminated, if they lose that goal then they will become addicted to always getting defeated, and those who still continue to gamble even though they often lose, maybe they want a big win that can cover the losses that have occurred,  so in essence they want a reversal of their losses, but what they do is wrong and make their money run out in large amounts.
 

A casino is not an ATM at all, a casino was created, it was first invented to give people enjoyment, to have fun, or for people to have a different time, and obviously those who own the casino built it because they know that it is a business, a great company where they can always have very good income and in addition that is what they are looking for, I don't blame everyone wanting to win, it's a mess, if we ourselves as players don't give ourselves courage, who will? Furthermore , in a casino you can win, knowing that there is the advantage of the casino, which is something that is always there, apart from the players who are aware of what the casino system is like, because apart from everything a person must have a lot of maturity To face things as they are, I am one of those who think that in a casino you must have a lot of maturity to be able to fully enjoy what a casino offers.

True what you say, if the casino is not an ATM machine, and also not a money-making machine that can be confirmed, but it is only a machine that provides paid games, where money is the medium of exchange with a game trip that will give its own sensation to the players. Casinos are also a place for people who want to get pleasure for those who are stressed because of their work. but if they are addicted to it, in my opinion, it is not the casino's fault, but it is their own fault that they cannot control themselves when playing at the casino, to be honest, casinos can make someone become addicted which will be fatal, but if only they can control themselves and limit and realize the budget they have, maybe they will not become addicted, and in my opinion also casinos are established for the purpose of making profits from people who come and play at the casino, not to give money to everyone who plays it. It's just that many people misinterpret gambling, by making it the main income in life that makes them themselves addicted and harm themselves. There's nothing wrong with casinos providing paid games, it's just those who can't control themselves who have the main point of error. Although there are opportunities to win in casinos, but it does not guarantee that it is easy to get. So they should play with the aim of seeking pleasure not to make money let alone to be the main source of income, it is not recommended.

That's right, I prefer to think of things equivalent to that a casino is only for enjoyment, a casino is only for fun, and that the casino is only a place of entertainment for responsible adults to be able to get a different, different time and that has l We have the option to lose or win money, but we have to be very realistic and see that there are more chances of losing than winning, that sometimes the options of winning are limited and that they have a lot to do with good luck, and that when we have those touches of good luck, they should be used to the maximum, for that reason we have to be very emphatic and aim to do things better with respect to everything that has to do with a casino, we must change our perception regarding casinos Many newbies always have the illusion of wanting to increase their balance as if it were magic, and that's not the case. They always imagine how much they are going to win and get that idea, knowing that they themselves are doing harm-

Why do I say that it hurts? because simply put, when you try to do things better and to win, sometimes it can be quite the opposite, you are going to lose a lot of money, perhaps more than you are willing to lose and that can lead you to absolute disappointment and that Yes, it's a good idea because based on what we know, we are people who should take advantage of each thing, and we should see casinos for what they are, an option to improve our lives socially, have fun times, have fun, and not forget that. , which is winning, but we cannot get our hopes up thinking that we will not become rich at once, because those who enter like this, spend and lose a lot of money, some do not come back again and instead of having a good experience, what they do is come out worse than what they were looking for, and that is not the idea, the idea is to enjoy this, there is no need for things to get out of control to learn.

[junder]

I do usually lost in gambling while my friends continually hit big I guess they are among the reason I still continue gambling but my current resolve is small stakes big odds. I don't really care how many times I lose but the day I finally hit it I'm gonna get it big. I don't see this unhealthy to me since I'm not addicted to gambling

You have two addictions here already. You are chasing your loses indirectly because since your friends are winning and you are not, that should have been enough reason for you to conclude gambling is not working for you or probably you know but you are waiting for when you will hit it big which is another part of addiction. Many gamblers are in these two traps, they want to recover their loses by hitting it big and stop but the more you wait to accomplish this desire the more you are losing to the house edge but I hope it will work for you, all the best on that.

Sometimes we can compare ourselves with others, but that kind of thing should not be done because everyone is a different person, we just have a friend because whether they win or not win is something we should not take into consideration to do, this is something we It varies a lot, sometimes they can play the right game at the right time and win, at some point the person who doesn't win will never have a good win, what has to be done is improve certain behaviors they have in the game, I don't know if the person It is the one who sets a budget willing to lose, or do I know if the person when playing does it under pressure with a lot of stress, because if so, it is very difficult to win, there is no better way than playing first to have fun and second to win money, because motivation and good faith or positivism must be had, it is something that we should not lose, but do it on the ground, not with castles in the air, we, as people who are usual, must know that the casino is another thing.

Yes, they must improve their behavior when playing by improving certain behaviors that can prevent them from losses that will occur. Such as self-control that always must be possessed so that they do not overplay, Because most of them are not willing to lose money due to gambling and then cannot accept the defeat that occurs so they have a sense of wanting to reverse the losses that have occurred which may cost them more money they have even though they set a budget limit for gambling.
The goal that a gambler should have is to gamble for thrills that can be made into fun or entertainment, and as you said that should be maintained not eliminated, if they lose that goal then they will become addicted to always getting defeated, and those who still continue to gamble even though they often lose, maybe they want a big win that can cover the losses that have occurred,  so in essence they want a reversal of their losses, but what they do is wrong and make their money run out in large amounts.
 

A casino is not an ATM at all, a casino was created, it was first invented to give people enjoyment, to have fun, or for people to have a different time, and obviously those who own the casino built it because they know that it is a business, a great company where they can always have very good income and in addition that is what they are looking for, I don't blame everyone wanting to win, it's a mess, if we ourselves as players don't give ourselves courage, who will? Furthermore , in a casino you can win, knowing that there is the advantage of the casino, which is something that is always there, apart from the players who are aware of what the casino system is like, because apart from everything a person must have a lot of maturity To face things as they are, I am one of those who think that in a casino you must have a lot of maturity to be able to fully enjoy what a casino offers.

True what you say, if the casino is not an ATM machine, and also not a money-making machine that can be confirmed, but it is only a machine that provides paid games, where money is the medium of exchange with a game trip that will give its own sensation to the players. Casinos are also a place for people who want to get pleasure for those who are stressed because of their work. but if they are addicted to it, in my opinion, it is not the casino's fault, but it is their own fault that they cannot control themselves when playing at the casino, to be honest, casinos can make someone become addicted which will be fatal, but if only they can control themselves and limit and realize the budget they have, maybe they will not become addicted, and in my opinion also casinos are established for the purpose of making profits from people who come and play at the casino, not to give money to everyone who plays it. It's just that many people misinterpret gambling, by making it the main income in life that makes them themselves addicted and harm themselves. There's nothing wrong with casinos providing paid games, it's just those who can't control themselves who have the main point of error. Although there are opportunities to win in casinos, but it does not guarantee that it is easy to get. So they should play with the aim of seeking pleasure not to make money let alone to be the main source of income, it is not recommended.

That's right, I prefer to think of things equivalent to that a casino is only for enjoyment, a casino is only for fun, and that the casino is only a place of entertainment for responsible adults to be able to get a different, different time and that has l We have the option to lose or win money, but we have to be very realistic and see that there are more chances of losing than winning, that sometimes the options of winning are limited and that they have a lot to do with good luck, and that when we have those touches of good luck, they should be used to the maximum, for that reason we have to be very emphatic and aim to do things better with respect to everything that has to do with a casino, we must change our perception regarding casinos Many newbies always have the illusion of wanting to increase their balance as if it were magic, and that's not the case. They always imagine how much they are going to win and get that idea, knowing that they themselves are doing harm-

Why do I say that it hurts? because simply put, when you try to do things better and to win, sometimes it can be quite the opposite, you are going to lose a lot of money, perhaps more than you are willing to lose and that can lead you to absolute disappointment and that Yes, it's a good idea because based on what we know, we are people who should take advantage of each thing, and we should see casinos for what they are, an option to improve our lives socially, have fun times, have fun, and not forget that. , which is winning, but we cannot get our hopes up thinking that we will not become rich at once, because those who enter like this, spend and lose a lot of money, some do not come back again and instead of having a good experience, what they do is come out worse than what they were looking for, and that is not the idea, the idea is to enjoy this, there is no need for things to get out of control to learn.

You are right, those who are adults will gamble at the casino responsibly, maybe they will not do excessive gambling because they already know the meaning of gambling where gambling is only entertainment in the form of games and it is impossible to do it excessively because it can harm themselves. Some people don't think the chances of winning are small, they ignore the big chances of losing so they don't really care about it for those who are addicted, maybe for those who already know the real gambling, they realize that the chances of winning are smaller than the chances of losing so they gamble by having a fixed limit either from money or behavior towards gambling. Of course they want a good game so that their balance lasts or better increases because of that they can play with long sessions even though there is no decent win at least they have an increase in balance which has a side they can cash out even if it is small, but most of them can't cash out because they are still hypnotized by the big wins they will get especially if the game is good which makes their balance increase, of course this gives more hope for them even though there is no big win they will get.

And that is indeed the fact, the hopes that they have that are so high do not also happen, instead they lose a lot of money because of the high hopes they have. they are trapped by their own hopes which hope leads them into the trap of the bookie, the bookie who has no view of anyone they only think about the benefits they get from people who have high hopes for gambling, because the bookie already knows people who have high hopes for gambling they will spend all their money on gambling not thinking about the loss of their money because of gambling. And of course the bookie will get a big profit, as good as the people who gamble are also unlikely they always win, there must be a big defeat that they have experienced. So only a few of them can gamble responsibly for the gambling they play, most of them are willing to spend a lot of money just for a dream win,  it's hard to get, that's the reality in every gambling there must be something like that. And it is best to dispose of any winnings that have been obtained not to do so following emotions that will lead to losing all their money.

[LUCKMCFLY]

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If we don't look at css lines they can be summarized in small things, first accept that the game in a casino is only led to luck, randomly, we must also understand that casinos are places where it is a business, where the person can lose due to the house advantage, which is so widely accepted, because it is a business, a company that has to have its profits, since setting up a casino is not easy at all, you have to have many things in good condition and also money, a lot of money actually, you also have to have enough patience and, above all, maturity.

When we are inside the ass we can do things quickly and violently, our way of playing could be the one we have always wanted but we have to keep in mind that for this we have to have money willing to put in a casino where if we lose it We do not have to have the slightest feeling of remorse, because we must be left with the satisfaction of enjoyment, that is what we must see, so for all this we have to have these simple reasons for what we must focus on.

Also if all the time complying with these simple conditions or rules, if we lose then we are doing everything wrong, we are playing incorrectly and we have to go change things because we are acting inside the casino with the wrong way of playing, because We are seeing the game in the wrong way, that is something that we have to change, that is the most important thing and that the player recognizes it, for that reason it is that when we talk about doing a better job in the casino, changes must be made that They are really worth it, also at the moment of winning, because there will be a moment when you win, what is recommended is that you can have enough strength to withdraw the money, it is the only way you can have and see something , enjoy the money you earned.