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February 14, 2024, 08:08:44 AM |
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Our Naija with their own mentality. I and friends usually engages on weekend outdoors for grooves (Flexing) but just lately that I decided to pullback from the activity because I needed to balance and meet up with my financial responsibilities which I am aware that the monies spent out there isn't as a means of paying my responsible bills neither does it profer me income.
I have to pay the kids school fees, stock the kitchen and meet up with other necessary bills which some of my friends fails to understand what my analogical logics could be, some Said.... " Don't mind him, does it mean we too don't have responsibilities to stick to? Or does it mean he is the only responsible one while we are Irresponsible?" And so well some said... "We can still move on so let's forehead without him".
Fellas, on a brief note the outcome of this is that my pulling out from that engagement which was like a routine has earned me extensiveness of savings and minimal of unnecessary expenditures.
I have always doubted the saying that birds of the same feathers flocks together. So I guess if these friends exercises irresponsibilities within their homes they expected me to act as one. And so well, people out there would also find me as one of the Irresponsible one.
Question: Why would friends be so biased at the caused of one minimizing his outdoors to meet up with his responsible expenditures?
Lesson: Not everywhere you fits in that you belongs, and not all those who celebrates with you that would stand by you at your chasing great things.
My advice: Don't feel too relaxed and carried away with the pleasures shares with friends, your friendship could only be of temporary and not permanent so, you can always pullout at your pleases without the emotional guilts of loosing golden friends.
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