Too much pressure on the male child

[Fiasem20]

The pressure of a male child starts from adulthood.A male child grows up to become a man and carter for his family as a breadwinner of the family.A male child can only be pressured by family members and the society only when he fails to provide the basic needs.Some male children are craving to get a job in other to provide the basic needs of life while some are lazy to work even when they have the opportunity to,and those set of lazy male children who have the opportunity to work but refuse to face pressures from different angles of life.
Exactly in African we are blessed with natural resources but the government fail to utilize these resources to create job opportunity for the youths to work. And when government fail to utilize these resources to create job opportunity it then becomes a problem to the society.

[Riginac111]

Our expectations from the male child is killing them gradually, a man without money is not just a problem to others, but to himself.

when I see young men engaging into things they ought not to due to lack of money, my heart bleeds.
Our society today have made the male child without money useless, and that have push them to their early grave and most of them engaging into criminal or fraudulent activities just to make a living which have brought them to their untimely end.

I am a proud African, I know how blessed we are with different mineral resources but our government is not helping matters by providing good jobs.

We should stop putting too much pressure on the male child, because they also feel pain.
 
The male child without money is not useless, they also deserve to live without being pressured!

we are supposed to know that I male child have a responsibility more than the female child on earth because each of the male child in each family is seeing itself as a liberation to their family that is why the male child work responsibly to make sure that it has accumulated number of things that will make him to be a successful person on Earth

[Zackz5000]

Most of this pressure do come from parents, some parents mostly put pressure on there male children may be when they see that other children around them are doing well in life they start putting pressure on there male child using all kinds of abusive words on them making most male child to do what they are not suppose to do, some time this pressure make them to go into doing anything that will make them be successful, some involving there self in ritual act, kidnapping, arm robbery, and so on.
And also as a male child you have a bigger responsibility expecially here in Africa it is expected for a male child to take care of there parents, pay bills, also as a male child you will get married, born children rise them up, send them to school, build house and so on and these things come with a lot of pressure.

[Tahid12]

Job problem seems turn into a major problem not into your country but also lots of countries. People can't manage any good job even they are qualify enough. But as a man he need to take responsibility for his family and that's why he have to do something to maintain and manage his family. So pressure will automatically come in that situation. And if a family is poor enough then they don't have any option without pressureing their male children for do any job for money. That's very common problem, what is not going to solve easily

[Jonyshake71]

Now i use to believe that, man are sent to this world for taking all responsibilities. They Work harder and harder to earn money so that he could be able to do his responsibility for his family. in my country, man have to work alone for his parents, his siblings, wife and children alone. That's too much responsibility and pressure which is created by society where we are living. when a male have no money to live with, then his situation force him involve himself in negative sides. And unemployment plays vital role cause no government fail to give you a job space, then what Will you do? It isn't easy to start business without money. Although somehow man manage his job.