Who should quit, and why?

[madnessteat]

To me it is just a matter of understanding. If the post Ph understand themselves and know when to gamble and know when not to gamble do the writing at the right time it will really help them on managing their home because gambling is something that can cause a lot of problems and a lot of debts if you are gambling addict so it is always possible if they understand itself, and in the other hand, if they lack understand it, they will be much problem between them because it will be a very big risk to their home management

Both spouses can easily combine work, household, child rearing, gambling and other entertainment, if they have a desire to have a strong family and they are responsible people. If they are not, they will find problems without gambling, because we know many stories when spouses who have never been into gambling, divorce, have problems with outstanding debts, etc. Everything depends on the spouses themselves and their goals, not on gambling.

[swogerino]

To me it is just a matter of understanding. If the post Ph understand themselves and know when to gamble and know when not to gamble do the writing at the right time it will really help them on managing their home because gambling is something that can cause a lot of problems and a lot of debts if you are gambling addict so it is always possible if they understand itself, and in the other hand, if they lack understand it, they will be much problem between them because it will be a very big risk to their home management

Both spouses can easily combine work, household, child rearing, gambling and other entertainment, if they have a desire to have a strong family and they are responsible people. If they are not, they will find problems without gambling, because we know many stories when spouses who have never been into gambling, divorce, have problems with outstanding debts, etc. Everything depends on the spouses themselves and their goals, not on gambling.

It all depends on the objectives they have as a family.If they want their bank account to grow for example they should come down to the same point that is,quit gambling and every money they want to allocate for gambling to deposit them in their recurring bank account and this way they will have more money than usual because they would have quit the gambling money.Now to do this is extremely difficult and that is why as a start they can begin by playing like 100 to 50 dollars a month,getting this sum down every time they gamble until it remains small like 5-10 dollars for fun and then quit completely.That is a good way of getting rid of gambling issues and looking after your family in a better way.

[stomachgrowls]

To me it is just a matter of understanding. If the post Ph understand themselves and know when to gamble and know when not to gamble do the writing at the right time it will really help them on managing their home because gambling is something that can cause a lot of problems and a lot of debts if you are gambling addict so it is always possible if they understand itself, and in the other hand, if they lack understand it, they will be much problem between them because it will be a very big risk to their home management

Both spouses can easily combine work, household, child rearing, gambling and other entertainment, if they have a desire to have a strong family and they are responsible people. If they are not, they will find problems without gambling, because we know many stories when spouses who have never been into gambling, divorce, have problems with outstanding debts, etc. Everything depends on the spouses themselves and their goals, not on gambling.

It all depends on the objectives they have as a family.If they want their bank account to grow for example they should come down to the same point that is,quit gambling and every money they want to allocate for gambling to deposit them in their recurring bank account and this way they will have more money than usual because they would have quit the gambling money.Now to do this is extremely difficult and that is why as a start they can begin by playing like 100 to 50 dollars a month,getting this sum down every time they gamble until it remains small like 5-10 dollars for fun and then quit completely.That is a good way of getting rid of gambling issues and looking after your family in a better way.

Yes this is true but if both doesnt have any plans or having those kind of point of views or those goals then they wont really be minding off with those things but instead they would really be continuing on the things that they are doing instead. We do know that when it comes to potential loses with gambling then it could really be that something that will really be wrecking up someones life without having no doubt with those probabilities.
This is why it should really be taken up responsibly or else you would really be messing up your life with and with your family. If both husband and wife are involved on gambling and doesn't really stop on what they are doing then just let them be, as long they arent that compromising their financial savings or conditions then it would be just fine. Issues would really be needing up to be addressed on the time that it is really that compromising something. Thing here is that both should really be that aware on what they are doing and completely stop if they've seen that they are really that spending tons on which it comes into a point
that its not already that ideal anymore.

[Huppercase]

Both spouses can easily combine work, household, child rearing, gambling and other entertainment, if they have a desire to have a strong family and they are responsible people. If they are not, they will find problems without gambling, because we know many stories when spouses who have never been into gambling, divorce, have problems with outstanding debts, etc. Everything depends on the spouses themselves and their goals, not on gambling.

I don't really think gambling will take one away from family responsibility, not like you are going to office work where you will spend the rest of your day in the office doing all the work without having any time for even yourself. Gambling can be done in the comfort of your home, even if a woman is a gambler, it shouldn't be an objective for not taking care of family unless she's an addicted gambler that prefer to spend time with gambling than his family.

My only issue with women gambling is financial stability, most homes women are subjective to their husband and they are been taken care by their husband, so when they decide to go route of gambling, where will they be having the money to gamble, who will fund the gambling lifestyle. If she doesn't and use the family money to gamble, they will run into problems later unless she is a type that is naturally good at winning.

[hedgeh0g]

Both spouses can easily combine work, household, child rearing, gambling and other entertainment, if they have a desire to have a strong family and they are responsible people. If they are not, they will find problems without gambling, because we know many stories when spouses who have never been into gambling, divorce, have problems with outstanding debts, etc. Everything depends on the spouses themselves and their goals, not on gambling.

I don't really think gambling will take one away from family responsibility, not like you are going to office work where you will spend the rest of your day in the office doing all the work without having any time for even yourself. Gambling can be done in the comfort of your home, even if a woman is a gambler, it shouldn't be an objective for not taking care of family unless she's an addicted gambler that prefer to spend time with gambling than his family.

My only issue with women gambling is financial stability, most homes women are subjective to their husband and they are been taken care by their husband, so when they decide to go route of gambling, where will they be having the money to gamble, who will fund the gambling lifestyle. If she doesn't and use the family money to gamble, they will run into problems later unless she is a type that is naturally good at winning.

If I start spending too much time on gambling, I won't be able to find enough for my family, and I can't imagine having enough time for everything. Ultimately, of course, I would rather put off gambling indefinitely in order to spend all my time with my family. Although to say that this would not be true all the time, because every person should have rest and relaxation. Of course, relaxation can be replaced by other types of recreation not related to gambling, but there are those who cannot imagine their life without excitement and anticipation of victory, but they need to be careful with their desires.

[RockBell]

I don't really think gambling will take one away from family responsibility, not like you are going to office work where you will spend the rest of your day in the office doing all the work without having any time for even yourself. Gambling can be done in the comfort of your home, even if a woman is a gambler, it shouldn't be an objective for not taking care of family unless she's an addicted gambler that prefer to spend time with gambling than his family.

My only issue with women gambling is financial stability, most homes women are subjective to their husband and they are been taken care by their husband, so when they decide to go route of gambling, where will they be having the money to gamble, who will fund the gambling lifestyle. If she doesn't and use the family money to gamble, they will run into problems later unless she is a type that is naturally good at winning.

Looks like you have not come across an addict that doesn't care about anything else but how to make wins from a bet. and addition to what your saying going to the office does not stop some individuals from gambling they can even gamble even when they are at work. and that is one of the reason we must learn to control our thirst when we gamble because from when you have you first win you would have enjoyed your self, from then you will want to gamble to see if you can win and that you start becoming an addict gradually.

for women it might be different because both men and women have different responsibility and that of a woman is always demanding. and you hardly see women that gamble since most financial responsibility is on the man they don't bother much compare to men and even if they don gamble it wont affect them taking care of there family. and with the way women deal with there funds they wont even risk to much to gambling. 

[Fivestar4everMVP]

To me it is just a matter of understanding. If the post Ph understand themselves and know when to gamble and know when not to gamble do the writing at the right time it will really help them on managing their home because gambling is something that can cause a lot of problems and a lot of debts if you are gambling addict so it is always possible if they understand itself, and in the other hand, if they lack understand it, they will be much problem between them because it will be a very big risk to their home management

Both spouses can easily combine work, household, child rearing, gambling and other entertainment, if they have a desire to have a strong family and they are responsible people. If they are not, they will find problems without gambling, because we know many stories when spouses who have never been into gambling, divorce, have problems with outstanding debts, etc. Everything depends on the spouses themselves and their goals, not on gambling.

So, do you mean, or are you telling us now that household work, child rearing; are all part of entertainment? Haha, I do not believe this, but may if you mind explain further why you think this things are part of entertainment, then maybe I might change my mind.
Secondly, how can a couple find problems without gambling ?, or do you mean to say that if they don't gamble together, they will have problems? - like the man gambling on his own while the woman is also gambling on her own, if this is what you mean, then you are definitely correct.

It's a very bad practice for couples to be gambling separately, in fact, I personally don't even see reasons why couples should be gambling in the first place, since it definitely will affect the children, I prefer that the man be gambling if he likes it, while the woman takes care of the home, afterall, it Is not a woman's responsibility to fend for his family, so, what thing or means he wants to engage in to achieve this, that's up to him.

[angrybirdy]

To me it is just a matter of understanding. If the post Ph understand themselves and know when to gamble and know when not to gamble do the writing at the right time it will really help them on managing their home because gambling is something that can cause a lot of problems and a lot of debts if you are gambling addict so it is always possible if they understand itself, and in the other hand, if they lack understand it, they will be much problem between them because it will be a very big risk to their home management

Both spouses can easily combine work, household, child rearing, gambling and other entertainment, if they have a desire to have a strong family and they are responsible people. If they are not, they will find problems without gambling, because we know many stories when spouses who have never been into gambling, divorce, have problems with outstanding debts, etc. Everything depends on the spouses themselves and their goals, not on gambling.

So, do you mean, or are you telling us now that household work, child rearing; are all part of entertainment? Haha, I do not believe this, but may if you mind explain further why you think this things are part of entertainment, then maybe I might change my mind.
Secondly, how can a couple find problems without gambling ?, or do you mean to say that if they don't gamble together, they will have problems? - like the man gambling on his own while the woman is also gambling on her own, if this is what you mean, then you are definitely correct.

It's a very bad practice for couples to be gambling separately, in fact, I personally don't even see reasons why couples should be gambling in the first place, since it definitely will affect the children, I prefer that the man be gambling if he likes it, while the woman takes care of the home, afterall, it Is not a woman's responsibility to fend for his family, so, what thing or means he wants to engage in to achieve this, that's up to him.

I agree, It's not a good practice that both couple are participating in gambling activities because they will be neglected a lot in their marriage, just like neglecting their children and not handling finances properly, if they both gamble, there is a big chance that their relationship will be messed up because once they both experience a big failure, there will be everyone is involved, it's like a domino effect and in the end, their children will be affected even more by their negligence. There is nothing wrong if they both know how to gamble, but since they have responsibilities in life, they should manage their time and actions well because one wrong move, everything they have worked hard to build can end up in vain.

[michellee]

I agree, It's not a good practice that both couple are participating in gambling activities because they will be neglected a lot in their marriage, just like neglecting their children and not handling finances properly, if they both gamble, there is a big chance that their relationship will be messed up because once they both experience a big failure, there will be everyone is involved, it's like a domino effect and in the end, their children will be affected even more by their negligence. There is nothing wrong if they both know how to gamble, but since they have responsibilities in life, they should manage their time and actions well because one wrong move, everything they have worked hard to build can end up in vain.

By avoiding or stopping their gambling activities, the couple will see that they can have more money to save. They can manage their finances by saving money to prepare for their future. Realizing that gambling doesn't guarantee they can win is what can give them more money to save.

If they just want to have fun, they don't need to gamble. They can do other things that don't require them to use money to get that pleasure. They can also learn more about their responsibilities.

When they can start to reduce their gambling activities slowly, they will find that they have more positive activities they can do. This will make them realize that they don't need to gamble. They will also not experience financial difficulties because they can learn to save money.