I tried AngryIP and it doesn't seem to show any kind of conflicts.
In my router config, it shows 5 IP's - my laptop here, the printer, 2 phones and the DirecTV connection.
It shows the Ethernet connection has sent 4585 packets and received 170, which makes me think that the connection is working just fine.
Any ideas?
Thanks for all of your help and tips!
Edit: It wouldn't let me put in a 2nd response, but I did try about every combination that I can think of regarding that darn reset button.. couldn't get anything to work yet.