im new...and i dont know shit about mining...can a miner add my transactions

[Lurk]

i have been waiting 12hrs for a couple transactions to go through....im new and did not know about miner fees i thought .0005 was the fee....can a miner actually pick my transactions and put them through after the fact if i sent a little them a bonus or whatever to add my transactions?

[sippsnapp]

Could you be more specific please, i dont understand what youre trying to tell us.

[Lurk]

i guess i didnt pay a high enough fee and my coins are in limbo for 12hrs.. i was told that id have to wait for a miner to add my transactions  and that you can choose to not add some transactions.     so i want someone to process my transactions and i will give them an agreed amount of btc.     if this is even possible

[Lurk]

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