well wheres the 14 btc i sent then? i dont care about the 18 bucks lol. I think about the 14 BTC thats unconfirmed?
It is in your wallet. The BTC you sent never actually sent. It is as if you never sent the Bitcoin in the first place, except for the 0.0329597 sent by the double spend. Everything else should be as if you never sent that transaction.
If you don't see that, then you need to tell your wallet to rescan the blockchain and forget that the transaction existed. What wallet software are you using?