So, I have a question:
Why is the processes of getting started with using/mining Bitcoins being kept so user-unfriendly?
You seem to think that mining is some golden ticket to riches.
Nearly every purchase of mining hardware has lost money for the person mining, especially when including the effort (labor).
What I mean by that is that had each person instead put that money into buying bitcoins instead, that person would today have more coins than that person has since received from mining (including coins that would be obtained by liquidating the investment in mining hardware, at today's values).
So in terms of bitcoins held in-hand today, mining has been a money-losing proposition for most everyone
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Ask all those people who sent in nearly 200 BTC for their BFL single's back in June 2012. Will those people be recouping their 200 BTC? Well, once that hardware ships we'll know what difficulty levels will be and how much they'll earn, but they probably shouldn't expect anywhere near 200 BTC.
Now to purchase that hardware they paid an amount worth about $1,300. Will they get $1,300 worth of bitcoins (after expenses) from it over its lifetime? Probably. Right now it only needs to mine 22 BTC to get there. Would those miners have preferred their 200 BTC right now? Sure, but that includes the benefit of hindsight.
So that's one reason mining isn't being given the "hard sell" -- there are skills required and risks taken and that isn't something for everyone.
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1) - The exception are those who have already received their Avalon ASICs or shares of ASICMINER -- they are doing better on a per-bitcoin invested basis than had they simply held onto their bitcoins.