What should I do?

[serizawax]

I'm a Japanese woman, my age is 24 years now. I already had a child when I was 18 years old because of a bad deed that I did, but the man who menghamiliku not want to be responsible and he escaped, but it does not make me desperate, I continue to take care of my son to big with affection and with the cost of my own perspiration as an online businessman.
At a time when my son and I were in the park, there was a man who came to me and it turns out he was the man who had made me pregnant, but now he comes back to me with good intentions that want to be responsible by marrying me and want to become husband and dad is good for my family, Actually I still have a love for the man but I was very hurt to him, and on the other hand it turns out my son has known the man (father of my son) in the long days, and my son already felt comfortable with the man. Now what should I do ?, should I accept the man or not?,or how?

[eann014]

It is depend on you, depend on who is you really love. I don't think it will go to be hard to you to choose. If you are not sure yet don't choose immediately, take it slow and see if who is more responsible to them and who is the one who will sacrifice everything just for you.

[cryptoglam]

Yeah I agree with a previous commentator..
But if you take this man back, you should really forgive him. Are you capable of it? Otherwise you'll always remember how he hurt you

[serizawax]

It is depend on you, depend on who is you really love. I don't think it will go to be hard to you to choose. If you are not sure yet don't choose immediately, take it slow and see if who is more responsible to them and who is the one who will sacrifice everything just for you.

Yes, thanks for his advice, now I can only wait until god gives me the best for me and my son?

[temorkebun]

I think almost all humans have bad memories of love and life, if you will forgive and accept it again maybe god will glorify you.

[LivingDeath]

I think you should do what is best for your son. That's what counts the most. Forgive that man in that situation would be the best I guess .

[tepakpak]

I will prepare myself to set a good future   

[twochain]

Just take care of your son and there is plenty of fish in the sea go out there and find people to meet up with hang out

[Linh Ga]

Your son have a bad father. It's difficult for your love a man again. I think you should have happiness, don't come back the man ( father of your son) who leave your alone when you need him.