My verge passphrase dont work?

Hi guys about January i got the electrum wallet from verge and i send coins there, since it never really worked with the electrum wallet, unconfirmed transaction ect... i decided to send them to the Qt Wallet

At my Qt wallet im sure i used the 9word seed from my electrum wallet as my passphrase for the Qt wallet, i saved it via editor to my usb and i have written it down to a paper, the Qt wallet also had problems in the past, the passphrase was not allways accepting and u only can get it unlocked when u changed the passphrase then it worked...

Then the release the new Qt wallet for for stealth 4.0.1 in that wallet i try it and it worked, one week ago i send again coins to my wallet, then i want to unlock it and it didnt work, i really try everything guys, delete a space, add a space ect ect..

I know its shit and my stupid is i dont have the private key

But please help me guys, maybe there is a programm or something were i can but force my wallet?

Thx in advanche