With the huge amounts of money involved in crypto and ICOs nowadays, it is getting more and more difficult not to do KYC. When it was all small, the rules weren't strictly enforced yet as it was not worth the effort. Nowadays, this has changed and it is worth it for governments to put effort into enforcing the KYC laws to prevent money laundring.
To me it is actually one of the reasons not to join ICOs anymore. Not because I don't want to comply to KYC, but because I don't want to hand my information to unkown and unproven parties.
I also have the same opinion with you, because I feel less agree if giving personal data to people we do not even know