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小伙怕催婚4年不回家 父亲千里找来拉他进派出所
March 14, 2018, 03:41:57 PM
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老陈心里苦,儿子有4年没回家了!电话也没打一个,家人都以为他出了事!
近日,河南的老陈(化名)为找儿子千里迢迢从河南开封找到杭州。见到了儿子的老陈并没有喜悦反而更加伤心,原来儿子并不打算回开封老家。
小伙借口单位忙4年不回家
老父亲从河南赶到杭州 拉儿子进了派出所
河南小伙小陈今年30岁了,河南开封人,父亲老陈今年59岁。
整整4年,小陈没有回过老家,连电话都没打过一个!家里人都以为他出了什么事。
这几天,老陈实在憋不住了,来杭州找儿子。
小陈在闲林一家工厂上班,老陈找到他后,不理解儿子为什么不肯回家。
“我和你妈都以为你出事了,这么久不回家也不打电话”老陈一边拉着儿子一边哭着说。
“单位事情多请不出假,工作实在太忙了……”小陈轻轻地说完后就开始沉默,显然他还是不肯回老家。
为了说服儿子回家,3月12日中午,老陈硬拉着儿子来闲林派出所,两父子在派出所门口又起了争执。
老陈一激动,摔倒在闲林派出所门口。民警得知情况后便将俩父子“请”进了派出所,父亲老陈老泪纵横。
小伙在派出所说出实情:怕家里催婚
更深一层原因:父母把他自尊心搞没了
交谈中得知,小陈上班的工厂早八晚五,有双休,说实话也不是特别忙。
无奈下,小陈说出了实情:“我到现在还单身,害怕家里催婚,不敢回去。”
“我们不逼你了。”老陈说。
小陈扭扭捏捏地向民警说出了更深层次的原因。
“4年前,我自己生病了,自己花钱医了一万多还没好,手头也已经没钱了。我想让家里打钱,我爸说你回来,给你打钱,不回来不给你。”
小陈就这样一气之下,挂了电话。
这之后,小陈又给家里去过电话,没想到老爸还是一样的回应。后面几年,小陈连家都一次没回,连个电话也没打。
“我感觉自尊心都没了。他(老爸)在亲戚朋友那里到处说,搞得好像我在外面乱搞,乱花钱一样。”
这些年,小陈过年几乎都是和朋友一起过的,今年过年他自己一个人去外面旅游了一趟。
在民警协调下 小伙意识到自己错误
承诺五一一定回家看父母
民警了解情况后先安抚了老陈的情绪,然后批评了小陈:“今年必须回家,再忙也要回家!你要是请不出假我帮你去单位请假。”
在民警调解下,小陈也认识到自己错了,他答应今年五一说啥也要回去看看父母。
临走前,民警再三叮嘱小陈,务必不要辜负父母的养育之恩,过年过节常回家看看。小陈表示今天先送父亲回老家,回到单位就和领导请假,抽时间一定回家看父母。
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Re: 小伙怕催婚4年不回家 父亲千里找来拉他进派出所
March 14, 2018, 04:47:35 PM
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同感,真的被催婚很讨厌,虽然父母总是拿着爱你关心你的理由,可是这也给了我们压力,不想接父母电话,不想见面,我94年得,就催的厉害,到底是有多怕我嫁不出去。
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March 14, 2018, 07:06:02 PM
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催婚是一个,另一个难道不是父亲到处在亲戚面前说儿子乱花钱乱搞,所有亲戚都觉得儿子是败家花心,而亲戚中一定有人给儿子说了父亲的给他们说的话所以儿子不敢回家么允悲
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Re: 小伙怕催婚4年不回家 父亲千里找来拉他进派出所
March 15, 2018, 05:39:36 PM
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光儿子认识到自己错误有什么用呢,难道家长就不需要认识一下自己的错误么?
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Re: 小伙怕催婚4年不回家 父亲千里找来拉他进派出所
March 16, 2018, 02:33:38 AM
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我们的人生,不应该是习俗、利益、、欲望和家长意志的产物。既然要奋斗,你要什么安排
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Re: 小伙怕催婚4年不回家 父亲千里找来拉他进派出所
March 16, 2018, 02:51:49 AM
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以事论事,不是谁对谁错。正确良好的解决问题才是关键,管你是XX事,解决问题!
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Re: 小伙怕催婚4年不回家 父亲千里找来拉他进派出所
March 17, 2018, 04:47:57 PM
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也是。我26岁,今年回家过年我爸跟我吵架,他还喜欢翻陈年往事,什么事都指责我,他在家对我妈有家暴倾向,大过年的还很重的口气说我,催婚啊,买车啊,我脾气好,没跟他计较,如果不是亲爹真想揍他一顿
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