You can't let almost unlimited amounts of people into your country to live, then give them houses and let them use the services and claim benefits etc all for free whilst not contributing anything themselves. This is my point.
If that's your point, I agree with you completely.
So I'll spell it out for you in more detail.
Just let anyone live wherever they want. It would be wrong (and counter-productive) to threaten or use force to stop people from living where they want. But equally those people need to find a place to live without threatening or using force.
So they won't be "living at my place for free", to use your words. But I might rent them a place if I feel like it. Otherwise, someone else will.
Of course no-one should be expected to "give them a house" or "give them benefits". Everyone can freely exchange whatever they choose to offer, for whatever they wish to obtain. That creates a win-win situation and is in every way preferable to forcefully penning people into tax farms, usually the one where their mother happened to give birth.
Well, this is unfortunately/fortunately for some the random reality lottery of life. I don't begrudge anyone emigrating and trying to make a better life for themselves to any place they wish, but there's a limit any country can handle without turning itself into a third-world country eventually. I don't think anybody should be forced anywhere, but restrictions obviously need to be in place.
