Nice riser there, technically what you said there is correct, electricity does not like "loose" stuff, everything must be "too tight" for things not to go to that extent, however with the way these 6-pins are designed, it's a bit hard for them not to be tight, i mean once you hear the "tick" sound, it's a 99% chance that they are tight enough.
The other possible reason is that the board is bad, it's pulling a lot of current , causing the wires to heat up and it's always the weakest point " the connectors" get burned first, now this could also be a problem with the control board " not handling the voltage requirement correctly" , I am not sure which ( control board / hashing board) is responsible for the "power" part , but which ever is, can very likely be the cause of all this.