When you are emotionally attached to something, you don't care about the truth

[Ucy]

One of the best way to escape this problem is to never to choose side unless you are absolutely sure.

[peter0425]

One of the best way to escape this problem is to never to choose side unless you are absolutely sure.

I can relate to this ,Because sometimes i get carried away specially if the one who's talking is a closer to mine and never made mistakes infront of me?

but sooner you will find that what he does is a misleading and just fooled me, Now i am learning not to trust everyone that easy and putting some malice first so i have a chance to clarify everything before choosing sides.

[Ucy]

One of the best way to escape this problem is to never to choose side unless you are absolutely sure.

I can relate to this ,Because sometimes i get carried away specially if the one who's talking is a closer to mine and never made mistakes infront of me?

but sooner you will find that what he does is a misleading and just fooled me, Now i am learning not to trust everyone that easy and putting some malice first so i have a chance to clarify everything before choosing sides.

Ofcourse.
I prefer not to side, defend or judge anyone based on how he/she looks and speak.   I'd even prefer to have people I'll judge masked/covered with something and their voices changed to sound similar, so that this things won't influence my judgment. What I mostly need is to focus on what they did or experienced and whether it's true/right or false/wrong.

[J9 - Coinhost]

I think this is especially true if fear is involved!

[Vod]

When you are emotionally attached to something, you don't care about the truth

You're emotionally attached to your god, right?   

[peter0425]

One of the best way to escape this problem is to never to choose side unless you are absolutely sure.

I can relate to this ,Because sometimes i get carried away specially if the one who's talking is a closer to mine and never made mistakes infront of me?

but sooner you will find that what he does is a misleading and just fooled me, Now i am learning not to trust everyone that easy and putting some malice first so i have a chance to clarify everything before choosing sides.

Ofcourse.
I prefer not to side, defend or judge anyone based on how he/she looks and speak.   I'd even prefer to have people I'll judge masked/covered with something and their voices changed to sound similar, so that this things won't influence my judgment. What I mostly need is to focus on what they did or experienced and whether it's true/right or false/wrong.

Well but surely once you were there as well, going on sides in which pretended to be  a victim and in the end finding out that you are being fooled.

this is part of being human to be emotionally intact but of course this becomes our teacher and learned from it.

[bitterguy28]

And much better never choose side at all unless you were asked to help and be the middle man, because being mediator is something we must not choose but instead the parties involved .
Ever since ,i try to keep distance in issues going around me as i have much problem to face and having theirs will only add burden and stress for my life and family.

[acener]

This was one of my problem whenever someone close to me got into something I would be on their side without knowing the whole thing,
Then later on when the things calm down I would soon find out that they are the one's who are in fault.
And because of those moments I chose to stay out unless I know what really happened before saying anything.
But there are times that it would really be hard to do that specially if the person involve is someone precious to you.

[Ucy]

And much better never choose side at all unless you were asked to help and be the middle man, because being mediator is something we must not choose but instead the parties involved .
Ever since ,i try to keep distance in issues going around me as i have much problem to face and having theirs will only add burden and stress for my life and family.

Ofcourse...  But as long as it's a private matter that isn't causing problems (or won't potentially cause problems) to people around the "parties involved".
If you are yelling at someone and disturbing people around you, I believe those who are being disturbed have the right to mediate or get the law enforcement people to mediate

[devil2man]

in trying to earn we must never get attached or get excited but it is easier said than done, if we are talking about new projects, investments must not be made with known people or relatives/otherwise we will still remain involved, in reality even in trading it is not easy to be just rational often instinct, emotion makes us make transactions that we would never make if we were only rational

[boyptc]

One of the best way to escape this problem is to never to choose side unless you are absolutely sure.

Being neutral would make you feel relax.

If there's a situation and there's a quarrel for which you need to take aside. Ask both sides which and why they've done those things that will make the other uncomfortable. You actually don't have to escape this problem and you can actually help solve issues that make others comfortable.

But if you're the one uncomfortable doing this, that's right, you don't have to choose a side and just ignore and let them fix whatever they had.

[bitterguy28]

And much better never choose side at all unless you were asked to help and be the middle man, because being mediator is something we must not choose but instead the parties involved .
Ever since ,i try to keep distance in issues going around me as i have much problem to face and having theirs will only add burden and stress for my life and family.

Ofcourse...  But as long as it's a private matter that isn't causing problems (or won't potentially cause problems) to people around the "parties involved".
If you are yelling at someone and disturbing people around you, I believe those who are being disturbed have the right to mediate or get the law enforcement people to mediate

That's the best way to act, calling a Law enforcement if you are being disturb because that's your right to have a Peace and healthy community .

and we as Citizen has the rights to Arrest people/s that we think bringing negative effect to our community ,specially when there are hurting or unethical use of power or voice against another one, and that is according to Law "Citizens Arrest"

[ILuckyGuyI]

I totally agree with this. Being impartial is a very important thing. When we start connecting to something or someone very deeply, it can cause us start thinking and acting sided. So, I always keep that in mind and care about not doing that. Because I really don't want to be unfair about something in no circumstances.

[coindefi]

This is called "Cognitive Dissonance".

Cognitive Dissonance:

“Some people hold a core belief that is very strong.

When they are presented with evidence that works against that belief, the new evidence cannot be accepted.

It creates a feeling that is extremely uncomfortable, called cognitive dissonance.

And because it is so important to protect the core belief, they will rationalize, ignore and even deny anything that doesn’t fit in with that core belief.”