I try to click the double spend and it shows it will be sent to my other wallet address but will it still be stuck again considering the fee will be 3 sat/byte or that will be just instant?
By the time you read my reply, the fees might have have changed significantly. Go to
this website and look at the third graph. Hover your mouse over it and you will see some detailed information on the fees. Every value under 1 MB should get your transaction confirmed in the next block if the blocks are mined regularly.
Still, I don't understand why you would pay a higher fee to cancel the transaction. You can just increase the fee of your original transaction. You do not need any extra coins in your wallet as long as you are fine with the smaller amount of coins being sent to the other address.