Why not tell us what website you are trying to recover your wallet with your 17 words passphrase?
17 words seed phrase is generated mostly on Blockchain wallet and if you want to convert them into 12 words seed then there is no way to do that.
I suggest you follow what others said above by clicking the recovery and paste your 17 words seed phrase and then it will show the login link including the password.
Now if you want to have a 12 words seed phrase then download Electrum from here
https://electrum.org/#download It will generate 12 words seed phrase.
After you generated a wallet from Electrum the funds you recover from blockchain, you can send them all to your Electrum. Make sure that you have 12 words seed backup for future recovery.