It is simple mate get aquatinted with all the forum rules pinned on the respective board stick to the rules in each boards avoid spamming and plagiarism and most importantly do your research for every information received on the forum to ensure it's accuracy of the information because every information is a strong hold on the community
This is what I would like to say to OP but I think he's too concerned about how to avoid being tagged by the moderators. Usually if you are just reading in the future you won't be having any problem with them but when you start some shady stuff or posting some spammy stuff or making something that would most likely going to results in a disadvantage to the other person/forum users, then you are making yourself as a target by the moderators.
And besides with the sticky, just read all about the rules of the forum, that's what they want you and your brother to understand in the forum.
