To the best of my knowledge I am not failing any yet. I am just facing the reality of the unfair world.
I'm curious about what kind of unfairness are you facing exactly. Do people call you names, call you a spammer, or something similar? As far as my forum experience goes I've never felt that the forum members actively target me for no reason at all.
Some people are rude, that's true, but you can ignore them if their post bothers you. You don't have to take everything to heart imo.