Op how do you feel forcing people to use a coin they don't want to make use of on their own free will? Create a good project and it will sale itself.
What makes you think such a coin where people are being forced to use of will see the light of day when you can't force them anymore?
Or where you or anyone here forced to use bitcoin? No!
By the way, the type of partnership you're proposing is what could be referred to as utopia. And finally, you mustn't have a yacht, mansions or lambo before you can be happier in life, there are people that have more than all of these and are not happy or feeling fulfilled. Don't pressure yourself about life being too short.
Here in cryptos, many people are more concerned of earning a profit on the coin that they hold rather than using them as on what they intended to but indeed that forcing someone else is still wrong. The ones who does that can be considered to as crazy and they don't feel sorry anymore for other people.
A project whether it is good or not, will still need a promotion because how can others get aware with it? Each of us are different. There are some people who are like that you describe but there are also others who are not like that and for them their definition of being happy & successful is if they have a lot of money and material things.