Do People Around You Feel If You Lose Or If You Win?

[bakasabo]

I think it's better if people know less about your gambling activities. When you win, they envy you; when you lose, they use it as an excuse to pour out negativity. Either way, you're seen as different, so why create unnecessary noise around yourself? Set clear rules for yourself: never play with more money than you’re willing to lose, and treat it as a hobby, not as a way to change your life.

Time ago in topics about gambling addiction, posters suggest opposite - let people know about your gambling activities, because they are first to notice there is problem with you and are first to suggest help. I suggest not to hide gambling activities, if game result does not depend from emotions - not to hide them either. When people show emotionally they are happy, their happiness "infect" others. When people lose and are unhappy, many would ignore you, but there could someone who could at least verbally support you, making you feel better.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

From your poll I picked the last option, I am good in hiding my win or loss bets. It doesn't matter if the bet was with a significant amount that I just decided to risk at once in one game or maybe I won a significant amount, I can only let people I want to know to be aware of it. It's only people that doesn't know how to control their emotions that easily let the people around them to know how their gambling went, because it will be written all over them that something happened.

[bubilas]

Psychologists say that you need to be restrained, but if the feelings are strong, then it is better not to hold them back. Because all this affects our health.
I know that the pressure in the body deteriorates if we hold something in and do not give it an outlet. If you are happy, then do not hold back, if you want to jump for joy, then do it. If you feel bad, then you can cry if you are alone.
I am not afraid to admit that sometimes you can allow yourself to do this. Not in front of your family, of course, but only when you are alone. But it becomes easier, and then it is easier to go through this difficult stage and come up with solutions to your problems. This is life and we are living people.

[free-bit.co.in]

From your poll I picked the last option, I am good in hiding my win or loss bets. It doesn't matter if the bet was with a significant amount that I just decided to risk at once in one game or maybe I won a significant amount, I can only let people I want to know to be aware of it. It's only people that doesn't know how to control their emotions that easily let the people around them to know how their gambling went, because it will be written all over them that something happened.

I visited an area where gambling is not legal. I have several friends there, those who regularly participate in gambling. They have rarely been to a casino for availability reasons. However, they are very active in online gambling, cause those are handy. We often discuss gambling, but I have not heard from these people that they have lost money in gambling. They only tell stories of their wins and avoid stories of losses. It seems they are ashamed to talk about their losses, or they see it as disrespectful, i dont know actually. You know, highlighting just wins paints a misleading picture, its really essential for newcomer to know both of those deeper losses and winning before engaging in gambling.

[TelolettOm]

From your poll I picked the last option, I am good in hiding my win or loss bets. It doesn't matter if the bet was with a significant amount that I just decided to risk at once in one game or maybe I won a significant amount, I can only let people I want to know to be aware of it. It's only people that doesn't know how to control their emotions that easily let the people around them to know how their gambling went, because it will be written all over them that something happened.

You've done the right way.  
Why we must let other people know whether we win or lose?
I think we all agree that it is better to keep our gambling activity secretly. So, it is a must to hide our win or lose, too. It doesn't make sense that we easily let other people know it. It means we let other people know our gambling activities. Sure, we should have a good emotion control as a good gambler. If we always can control the emotion, we are surely possible to hide any information related to our gambling activities. By the way, we must remember that there is no value to let other people know it! It just risk ourselves!

[finaleshot2016]

How about you what's your position?

I'm hiding it of course, If i showed them what I feel, it'll just me becoming vulnerable and of course too many advice will give to me that I really don't need 'cause I know what I'm doing. People will also think that I'm doing some bad stuff and that'll ruin their perspective towards me so it's better to solo the emotions I feel and not show it to everyone. And besides, soloing the emotions when losing is not hard, it's part of life and normal, it's easy to justify loses because it's gambling, it's not guaranteed to win even with your skills so it's okay. It teaches you how to stay grounded and be aware on what you're doing. In the end, your mindset matters more than the outcome, and carrying by yourself is not a problem, it's not heavy anyways.

[Crypto Library]

Of course, it is better not to tell the people around us whether we won or lost, because approval can rarely arise there. If we win, people can start to envy us, without even showing it, but inside they will want the same and think why it happened to him, and not to me, because we are so similar and not much different. And if the player loses, then some in their thoughts will again start comparing and thinking that we are losers. In addition, this can become the reason why our environment can also start playing, and lose, and then blame us for the fact that we dragged them into the game, although we did nothing for this.

Yeah, that's another point.

It is actually a common occurrence that other people get attracted to gambling after seeing someone making a good profit by gambling and later on, they end up spending more than they can afford to lose and face losses.

At this stage, many times, gambling becomes addictive and later on, the person who sees that he is starting to gamble is blamed. Therefore, one shouldn't tell anyone about winning.

[Antotena]

The hardest thing for a gambler is their appearance and their mood after they log off or step out of the gambling platform they've played on.

I have seen gambling, jumping for joy, and bragging about the amount they won, even posting their winnings on their social media account.

And some gamblers cannot hide their frustration and depression after they lose. You cannot talk to them; they become hard-headed and even resort to drinking.

And some gamblers are good at managing their emotions, so you have no idea if they lose or win, leaving people guessing.

In my case, I make it hard for people to guess if I lose or win. I don't want to bother them if I lose, and I don't want people asking for a share if I win. It's hard to do this, but practice makes perfect.

How about you what's your position?

 

Every person has their own easy of grieve, happiness, sad moments and anger moments, as for me when I'm see money in happy but you will not see the facial expression from my face, that's not happening but if you are around me, you will see changes because I'm going to use that money to do things I want to do immediately, if I have plans to buy something I do that instantly and if I have plans to give you money that time, I do without any hesitation be it gambling money or not.

Similarly when I lose a bet I have stuck on my head for long time especially the long games with hard options, I do get angry but you wouldn't see it on my phase and it disappeared quickly, the money isn't something that is going to be an issue because I don't gamble above what I can carefully donate to any casino, I don't do those type of gambling, put what you know you can give to the casino and you will be happy with any result that comes later.

[Onyeeze]

When a gambler loses money on gambling it will frowned his face to the neighbourhood because the gambler is emotionally angry of losing, shall, it depends on individual, because they is some people who will lose in the gambling and you will not notice about it and some people will lose too you will win too you will not know that they have won a big amounts of money in the gambling, we have to know that already, that it depends on individuals that will make you to know if you will celebrate your winning to the neighbourhood to know or you will keep it in secret

[shasan]

Usually no one can understand whether I am a loser or a winner. And if I win no one can understand that I have won but if I loss a big amount then my wife can understand that I am a loser but except she no one can understand. Even no one know I am gambling in my real life.