Sex before marriage or after marriage, which one do you prefer?

[mich]

Well I do not think there is alot of people that does wait to become married to have sex. It is a old fashioned way to think we must wait for marriage before we have sex with our partner.
I do know there is some people that waits to be married for a religious idea. And for this I do think it is a good thing. But if we do wait for marriage and do not like to have sex with the partner well then we might have to have a divorce.

[New Judgement]

Yes sex before marriage is preferred reason been that if u go into marriage with out knowing the sex life of your partner, you might end up marrying a weakling, someone that can't satisfy your sexual urge or someone that even have a weak erection.
This has broken so many homes today, unknown to d partner that his or her spouse is not able to satisfy them sexually.

[uchegod-21]

Different people have different sexual orientation which they may not be quick to identify if they keep away from sex completely due to religious rules or some cultural practice. Finding out about themselves while in marriage can be disastrous and could be assumed that the whole foundation of the marriage was built on falsehood or ignorance all along.

I have seen people say they have phobia for sex, meaning they have no sexual desire. Such people have no business getting entangled to someone who is sexually active, both parties will suffer it. On that note, I do agree with no sex before marriage, it does not solve anything in marriage. Marriage is a life long thing, both partners should understand themselves in every aspect before embarking on that sacred journey.

[Ishicryptic]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

Sex before or after marriage is not a guarantee of a happy home, it cannot stop a partner that wants to be promiscuous from doing so, aside from people who their religion obligated them from having premarital sex it is totally the decision of a couple. Unmarried couples that are dating will give excuses that they need to have intimacy with their partner before marriage to know if they are compatible before entering marriage, I think that is a cheap excuse to have a reason to engage in sex before marriage. You don't need to have sex with somebody before knowing if you are compatible or not, you can ask intimate questions about each other's sexualities before marriage. What if the person is compatible with you now and after marriage due to some issues the person is no longer compatible, what are you going to do? The point is that sex alone cannot sustain happiness between a husband and wife.

[Sarah Jordan]

I am not against sex after marriage. But i think there are things to know about sex before marriage. Nevertheless people have their choices and it boils down to both persons agreement. Both sex before or after marriage is individual choices. To me i think sex before marriage it's okay cause you may not how it would be in the after effect.

[liasbaa]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

It is necessary to know the details about the life partner before marriage. Consent is necessary for a mutually harmonious situation depending on the interests of both parties.

[IjawMan]

partners have to know each other as deep as it could be between the them two before marriage to know if they are compatible or not, and it includes having intimacy. Amongst two partners one may have high libido and the other partner might have a low libido, a problem of satisfaction in bed can happen when both partners were not aware of this to know how they can deal with it in marriage. Not having a good sex from your partner dew to a low libido can be problematic.

[Cryptokuus]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

preferable the best is sex after marriage and the holy scripture also support it. Although some person believe that it is wrong due to some reason, like fertility and also to know if your partner sexual urge align with yours . I do feel that there are other ways to go about this.

[Lolipo]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

In the old days virginity matters a lot, it was a pride for intending couples to retain their virginity before marriage, especially for the women. On the wedding night white sheet will be spread on their first conjugal night and in the morning if the sheet is stained with blood the wife will be celebrated as a virgin before marriage. That culture is no longer in practiced now, young people shy away from such cultures. They prefer to have sexual intimacy before marriage to see if they will be compatible sexually with their future spouse.

In this generation virginity before marriage is no longer important, people are free to have casual intimacies with several partners before marriage. What matters to them is faithfulness after marriage, anything that happened before marriage with other people is not important.

Now virginity is seen as something that is very command now. For you to see a  lady that is still decent is a problem, I don't know if we are to blame the Internet or we are to blame parents for failing on there part. However sex after marriage would have been better but considering the way our boys now behave and the manner of things they do for enlargement I think sex before marriage is better most especially for the lady so she can attest to the kind of man he wants to spend her life with. If after marriage the lady discovers that she can actually withstand her husband then the marriage won't work. So a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage, all these is all connected to intimacy, so I think sex before marriage is the better.

[xiamin]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

It depends on the mindset of the partners. If they think they will get to know each other and get to know each other more closely before marriage, they can do so. Due to the diverse cultures of different countries, in many countries there is no opportunity to socialize before marriage. However, I think it is better to decide according to religious views and your own culture.

[GoldBitcoin112]

To me is very important that we know our self in all areas before enbacking on a marriage journey, because many regrets why they get married today without knowing how their woman is in the other room ,so before a grow up man should get married the both need to have time for
themselves to be together at least one year to know each other wick point as to make the marriage last because their are some people who doesn't like play and your partner like to play too much and the man doesn't like play much ,so all this things are what one need to put into consideration first before you rush to marry if not as you rush into it ,you will also rush come out ,that's when you will know that staying together first to know each other problem and wick point before entering into the marriage fully is very vital,so in conclusion don't just marry all because people are getting married,make sure you learn who you actually want to spend the rest of your life with so that marriage will be more interesting to others who hasn't gotten married too

[Johnlomape]

Yes sex before marriage is preferred reason been that if u go into marriage with out knowing the sex life of your partner, you might end up marrying a weakling, someone that can't satisfy your sexual urge or someone that even have a weak erection.
This has broken so many homes today, unknown to d partner that his or her spouse is not able to satisfy them sexually.

Wow, this is funny from my own perspective. So you want to eat all fruits and know the one you will stick with? You don't have to sleep with a woman or a man before you will know that they are good or have some amazing features in them. I know so many of us have our own view about this but I don't think testing a woman/man will give you the confirmation that he or she will be a good partner in the other room. 

I am seen people marrying virgins and the women still cheat on them after so many years. This does not apply to all but we have to know that people can pretend to be what they are not and it's a legit reason to watch, observe and test who you want to spend your whole life with.

[Oluwa-btc]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

We could still do it before marriage and and love ourselves, be for ourselves a hundred percent. You could still wait until after marriage and get a cheating whore who do not respect you or man who's not loyal to you alone.
In anyways, we hope it's somebody worthy who can be with us until the last days or till death do us part. All that do not give a direct response, I would rather do it before marriage. Curious asf! I want to know if it's good enough!!