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[GigaCoin]

We will always feel there is so much we could've done and said to our loved ones, I think that just causes stress and unhappiness to someone.

What's more important IMO is to be good, cherish the good moments, free up sometime to spend with youroved knes but do it to your capacity without sacrificing other things. Never regret what you did and didn't do as that will only depress you.

[d2dtk]

My Father....dying, asked him if he was scared while he was in a half coma. He shook his head no. He died the next morning. I whispered in his ear "See you on the other side". Miss him and wished i said more.

Don't wait to say it..say it now while they are alive

That is very touching. I try to tell the ones I care about how much they mean to me everyday and not let little things get to me.

[counter]

Very touching story, I'm sincerely sorry for your loss..  I hope he didn't feel very much pain.  I'm glad you were able to say your peace with your father before her was gone.  I always try and say I love you to a family member of loved one in times like that.

[sana8410]

My Father....dying, asked him if he was scared while he was in a half coma. He shook his head no. He died the next morning. I whispered in his ear "See you on the other side". Miss him and wished i said more.

Don't wait to say it..say it now while they are alive

You are,if i can say like this,one of the "lucky ones" who are near there parents when they die..i wasn't next to my father when he died and that i will regret it all my life.May your father soul rest in peace!

[sana8410]

also I remember my uncle, who was paralyzed when he was shot when he was in his 20's.  Anyway one day he was sleeping with the AC on and his AC was right next to him.  Thats AC made the room like refrigerator.  Anyway next morning the nurse was calling me and he was unconscious looking like he was gasping for air at the same time.  I thought he was dying.  Anyway after he came back from the hospital I knew he was going to die. I asked him if he remember anything, he said no and that hes scared.  I told him not to worry, When your time comes you wont remember a thing.  Anyway a couple of days he was aback in the hospital again.  This time for good, his body was failing couldnt fight the infections, coming to the days of his passing he had a heart attack. he suffered alot.  Its funny cause when he was younger he did alot of hard to his sisters.  He was a gangster bad boy.  I think it was a punishment for him.  He was cursed.  Anyway he is RIP after 9 years

[fdiini]

I remember a friend of mine died in car accident, I didn't feel anything, only after 24 hours passed, I wanted to cry a river and just wanted to get him back to life to tell him "I love you".

Same thing happen to me when a close family of mine died.

I think it has something to do with having a low eq.