Women's love sees babies.
In order to have babies in a good way, need a man who is a loving husband. So, need to manipulate the man without leaving any hint that he is being manipulated. Make him like it. Do a lot of the "making" subconsciously.
Need money. Get the man to make the money if possible. Again, very sly and sneaky manipulation... even subconsciously done.
Love is blind for the guys, not for the gals.
Gals need babies because they have machinery inside them for growing (not just making) babies. Gals are not fulfilled unless that machinery is activated and does its job.
Many gals in this forum will not admit this. They might even say that it is a load of crap. The reason they talk like this is because they can't manipulate the guys as easily if the truth is out in the open. However, they might not even know that that is why they think this is a load of crap. Much of it is subconscious.