Does this mean it finally worked?
Yes (I think)
Maybe what the problem was is I installed the wallet in the root folder originally and did not cp netcoind to the right directory, so when i messed it all up I made sure I was in the public_html directory when i installed it and cp netcoind to a public_html directory as well. I THINK that may have been what fixed it. I know its connecting to the wallet and it is generating addresses from within my wallet but I cant see about deposits until the wallet is fully in sync.
If I were you I would check that the script does not have a backdoor.
I am still testing the site so its not public yet, we are looking rigorously for the backdoors but so far we have not been able to find any. the wallet has specific ips it allows to connect as well as the VPS itself (now you see why i wanted the wallet on a different server than the game) I only have so much control over the webserver but we are doing our best to secure everything. the member passwords are hash protected in the mysql database, thus making it a pain in the ass if someone looses their password or makes a mistake cause I cant even see what their password is. Its sad all we have to do to defend against theives. they are what made this so damn complicated. Also why i would not just put rcpallowip* there was no way that was happening HAHAHA