The transaction now doesn't exist on blockchain. So I believe it was never confirmed, and then it got cancelled.
yes this transaction has been confirmed, I had to wait 4 days for this lol
Payedouts for fees make transactions a lot faster. Since he didnt give you much, he didnt want to pay extra apparrently. Hope it confirms for you soon and happy birthday!
haha yeah so was my friend is very stingy, ok thanks for the birthday wishes
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