What should I do in this case?

[FanEagle]

Ok, see me, a person inlove with his girl
she tell you that she's going to have an important and hard surgery(not that BS that girls do nowadays to look like dresses on a stick)
she even wrote a will.
Problem is:
1)You are from Europe, she is in America.
2)Even if you decide to visit her, you can't because of this:
a)You will soon get an answer for a job, in case the need you to talk almost immidiately from taking part of the teamwork.
3)what should I do to make her really know that i'm with her anything happens?
4)How should I react?

Cause I cried but this won't help me or her.

What's your guess?