In my opinion fucking is about busting that nut and not much else.
That's fine and all but definitely not the best way to enjoy a sexual experience.
I mean, you can "make love" being tied up and choked and all that shit too, but both parties have to be experienced.
When I have sex I don't do it just to get off anymore. In fact, I rarely actually bust. I've practiced withholding sperm which makes for a more intense experience which can last quite a long time.
Sex has become more of a magical ritual than just fucking.
Less encounters, but more intense when they happen.
Sometimes I don't feel it's possible to make love where you roleplay or be very rough. Sometimes when he's hurting me, it kind of doesn't feel like making love at all. It shouldn't hurt. When I have less encounters, I feel like a born again virgin. Not to say that I think that's wrong or a bad feeling.
I wish I had kept my virginity, actually. How many times would you say you've made love vs. How many times that you've fucked?