Congratulations! you just re-invented the ether.
Yup, that's (and i'm not kidding) the forefront of current physics.
Of course it's a different kind of 'ether' then what people normally think of.
I'm sure it is
Here is a youtube video about the double slit experiment done with a needle instead of a double slit by the guy who inspired me to take part in this discussion:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yOwTV-HgDUoYeah well, this guy seems like a bunch of FUD.
He got it right with the particle explanation. You shouldn't see fringes if matter was a particle.
But he is completely wrong about wave behavior.
Waves are not cut off by an obstacle, they bend around it. All waves do that naturally. Water, sound, EM all bend around corners.
If his animation was true you could not hear direct sound around a corner. But you can.
All waves bend around corners and that is why his needle experiment shows fringes.
He apparently (and propably deliberately) misunderstands wave dynamics.
His only real example of 'no interference from needle' is the blue part at 6:33 and it shows interference except it's on the bottom side.
It also doesn't show an obstacle like a needle.
His gravitational lensing thing is also bunk.
There is not nearly enough mass in a needle to bend a photon in any meeningfull way.
If there was a gravitation-like or rope-like effect we would have found out about 100 years ago.
So he misrepresents the reality of wave dynamics and then uses some far out theory to explain how he is right...
Hmm.,., havent seen that one before.,
This guy is as pseudo as they come.
He does have his own book, tho!