(my employer and government work together to take money out [...]
To be fair, it's not that they "work together" -- it's that the government threatens your employer with punishment (caging, bankruptcy, aggressive violence if necessary). I wouldn't qualify that as "working together" any more than I would qualify a rapist and his victim as "making love".
As one of my favorite philosopher says: the institution named "State" survives, only because people willfully pretend that the gun in the room isn't there.