How To Handle Long Distance Relationships??

[MarvelousAQL]

I've been with this girl for about 3years now, dating her online; but recently she says shes been numb and doesn't think i'm the one for her, even after all we have been through and the promises we've made. Is there anything I can do to fix this relationship because I love her a lot.

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[MisO69]

I've been with this girl for about 3years now, dating her online; but recently she says shes been numb and doesn't think i'm the one for her, even after all we have been through and the promises we've made. Is there anything I can do to fix this relationship because I love her a lot.

No. She wants to end it and it takes two people working hard to make a relationship work. so... you're done..

If you want more advice then I suggest you stay away from women for a while and hang out with the boys. Go have fun for a while. Relationships are like full time jobs. Consider the next few months vacation.

[HCLivess]

I've been with this girl for about 3years now, dating her online; but recently she says shes been numb and doesn't think i'm the one for her, even after all we have been through and the promises we've made. Is there anything I can do to fix this relationship because I love her a lot.

dating her online? what do you mean? you've been together online?

[MarvelousAQL]

I've been with this girl for about 3years now, dating her online; but recently she says shes been numb and doesn't think i'm the one for her, even after all we have been through and the promises we've made. Is there anything I can do to fix this relationship because I love her a lot.

No. She wants to end it and it takes two people working hard to make a relationship work. so... you're done..

If you want more advice then I suggest you stay away from women for a while and hang out with the boys. Go have fun for a while. Relationships are like full time jobs. Consider the next few months vacation.

That would really be hard on me since I love her so much, but you're probably right. It would take me a while to recover though

[MarvelousAQL]

I've been with this girl for about 3years now, dating her online; but recently she says shes been numb and doesn't think i'm the one for her, even after all we have been through and the promises we've made. Is there anything I can do to fix this relationship because I love her a lot.

dating her online? what do you mean? you've been together online?

yes we only had time to be together physically one time, otherwise we always spent time with each other, online.

[CoinsOrDie]

only once in three years.. jesus!
well if she's not in love with you anymore there's nothing you can do. sorry about that

[Das]

Why don't you try spending time with her physically, like eating pizza together or going to the movies?

She might just be having trust issues, like maybe she's wondering if you really care about her, if she's the only one you are dating... there is no way of knowing if a guy is faithful to you when you don't have the opportunity of studying him one-on-one.

Introduce her PHYSICALLY to your friends and family if you want the relationship to last. Then she will know for sure that you are in for the long term, it's not just a hit and run affair.

[luzac]

before it. i want to ask
why you cant to meet her?

[MarvelousAQL]

before it. i want to ask
why you cant to meet her?

She lives in the Phillipines now, and i'm here living in South Africa. I'm only 21years old and if I could afford to go there and meet her I would, but I cant.

[AioFox]

hey buddy, if she really loves you, she'll realise sooner or later that she made a mistake; if she doesn't then you're better off not being with her; you can find a better girl who would love you just as much as she used to.

[kryptqnick]

I've been with this girl for about 3years now, dating her online; but recently she says shes been numb and doesn't think i'm the one for her, even after all we have been through and the promises we've made. Is there anything I can do to fix this relationship because I love her a lot.

I think you better ask what she doesn't like in you and tell her that you love her. You have to rely on your views of the situation. Try to analyze your relationship and think whether she ever loved you and whether she still loves you and there's just some other kind of problem that spoiled your relationship. If after analyzing you conclude that she loves you (or, at least, still loved you not a long time ago), then do your best to get where she lives and meet her with flowers. If you cook well then cook something for her. Make it a surprise meeting.
If it's too expensive then try to send her a very touching letter (I mean a real letter, not an e-mail) and see what happens then.
Good luck!!!

[luzac]

before it. i want to ask
why you cant to meet her?

She lives in the Phillipines now, and i'm here living in South Africa. I'm only 21years old and if I could afford to go there and meet her I would, but I cant.

first, you must ask her for sriously realtionship
two, try to meet her. and if you cant do that, explain about your feel to her, your love.
and if she cant accept you,, try another girl 

[MarvelousAQL]

I've been with this girl for about 3years now, dating her online; but recently she says shes been numb and doesn't think i'm the one for her, even after all we have been through and the promises we've made. Is there anything I can do to fix this relationship because I love her a lot.

I think you better ask what she doesn't like in you and tell her that you love her. You have to rely on your views of the situation. Try to analyze your relationship and think whether she ever loved you and whether she still loves you and there's just some other kind of problem that spoiled your relationship. If after analyzing you conclude that she loves you (or, at least, still loved you not a long time ago), then do your best to get where she lives and meet her with flowers. If you cook well then cook something for her. Make it a surprise meeting.
If it's too expensive then try to send her a very touching letter (I mean a real letter, not an e-mail) and see what happens then.
Good luck!!!

Hey man, thanks for that advice, it seems like a really nice thing to do. i'll try the letter thing, it really good

[Akupuniard]

I think it's not so good to try keep your relationships on ling distance, cause you can talk with her but she can lie to you and have relationships with other guy.

[ukasyah]

I've been with this girl for about 3years now, dating her online; but recently she says shes been numb and doesn't think i'm the one for her, even after all we have been through and the promises we've made. Is there anything I can do to fix this relationship because I love her a lot.

if you don't want to lose her. meet her and marry her. I think every girl will feel that she is important when someone says he wants to marry her.

[deadsilent]

I've been with this girl for about 3years now, dating her online; but recently she says shes been numb and doesn't think i'm the one for her, even after all we have been through and the promises we've made. Is there anything I can do to fix this relationship because I love her a lot.

Maybe its time for you to mve on. Anyway, are dating her online for 3 years?

[intrader]

Long Distance Relationships often did not result with happy ending,I exprienced before,you should find someone near to your life that is more realistic

[grim007]

you must marry her. hahaha. seriously, that kind of relationship didnt work most of the time. but i suggest that give him some effort that showing that your partner is important to you. for example , meet her once a week even though she is far away.

[vetpet]

First ask yourself, do you really want this relationships? If yes what did you do for continue? What did you do for your partner?
Life is changes. Just accept changes.